Today is my last day in M.
You know in 孙悟空 story, there's always a monster but disguise in normal/pretty face? Well, the "raksasa" in my company is like that. I showed her picture to my friends, only my best fren Aigie said "she is ugly" because she is supporting me, other people said she looks fine and doens't look like someone that will do ugly things to others. 人不可貌相 is the only answer I can give to my friends.
This stupid woman, is really a raksasa, disguise under the lamb fake outer shell. This blardy woman. Today I sent out farewell email, she is the 1st one to open and read it even though she is having a meeting with a 4A company, can you believe how tension she is? She must be afraid that I will say bad things about her, 唱衰她！ Hey I ain't raksasa. I only said bad things to good friends like Aigie, Winston, Nicole, Esther. And among them, only Aigie knows everything. To other friends, I only tell them "raksasa in my office make my life in hell" and hide the details (partly because I also feel sian talk about her sui staff). And to other colleagues in office, I have never said a bad thing about her. But I guess I should!!!!!! Sibeh raksasa!!!!!!!!!!!!
My hubby hate her so much, he said he wanted to punch her at her face.
Having said all that... I am relief!!!!!!!!! Yay!!!!!!!!! No need torture myself come to work everyday (come to work is not tortured, come to work under her is torturing). No need to drag my soul to do things I dont like to do (I get asked to do no meaning things, because she boh song me). No need to laugh at her fake sibeh jokes!!!!!!!! And no need to hurt my eyes (she always wear low cleve shirts even in winter, to show her breast cleavarage! WHORE!).
I hate her. But I love my new life. Yay!!!!!!!!!!! Sibeh Karen Ong, you can continue do your fake things and enjoy all the fake excitement in your life with fake laughters and be a fake step-mom to your stupid lover's kids (he must be blind to fall in love with u, a divorcee with so many fake history)! Enjoy your life!!! And hey, what goes around, COMES around! I will just wait when is your ugly black heart get exposed to all people!!!
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Last day in M
Tuesday, December 08, 2009
My new toy
Sunday, December 06, 2009
《殺人犯》 (Murderer)
(I am very afraid of ghost movie)
Jay sweared it was not a ghost movie. He said it's just normal movie. So at the end, I watch with him.
It was a fantastic movie!!!!!! This is one of the best movie I have watched in this year. Ichiban!!! Aaron Kwok's skill has improved so much again after the movie "父与子". He is great! And the director of this movie is so young, and yet the plot he had is so good!
The only thing i cannot understand is, which parents will allow their kid to go shoot for such a movie? I will never let my son to go shoot for this kind of movie. This is so unhealthy for their mental development... eee....
Anyway, I don't want to say much here. Those of u who haven't seen this movie, should try to watch it :)
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Bitch!!
I really beh tahan this bitch!!!!!!!
If she die in front of me right now, I will clap my hand until my hand rosak!
I am so pissed off, I secretly took her picture during one of the bloody team lunch where she as usual, so fakefully talking to my boss (my boss reprts to her! and thus, u can imagine my reporting line) "oh i am getting married in CNY.. hhohohohoo... yah... oh since this is my second marriage, i only do small small lah. just invite people to my house only.. hohohohoho... yah.. it's also his second marriage... hohohohohoho".
I really beh tahan on how she treated me, I printed out her photo in color, and use the pen to duk her face all over until it's a bit koyak now! This blardy woman!!!!!!!! I hope one day she will taste her own doing!!!!!!!!!!
BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monday, November 23, 2009
Life is unfair
Life is pretty unfair hor?
Good people get tortured with difficulties, while bad people seems to enjoy life - bad people getting pregnant with no pregnancy difficulties, eat eat eat and so fat while good people pregnant with twins and just diagnose it is a monoamniotic twins with some risk of survival; bitch that sucks in people management and only good at office affair by tui-ing around is climbing coporate ladder; 忘恩负义 people 嫁女儿抱孙； good people with great contribution to society died early while beggars on the street have no purpose in life day after day appear on the street beg for money.
Don't know what to say when think of this. Life is very unfair.
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Some questions about facebook friendlist
Knowing there are some colleagues in my facebook, has restricted my freedom of speech in facebook. I cannot talk about my work, my job, and I cannot release my tension here with that bitch in the office! Argh!!
Does anyone know if I delete the contact, what is the answer to following question?:
- would they know? is there a notification sent to them telling them I have deleted them from my contact list?
- would they still able to read my stuff? (updates, photos?) I have already chose the option "only my friends can view".
And also, I always curious, for those that sent you request to add as friend, if you choose "decline", would they know? Since I don't know they will know if I cancel them or not, I normally just leave it, do nothing. But the thing is, it is very irritating to see "you have 5 friends request" on the top left panel. Err....!!
I feel those colleagues adding me to their facebook friendlist is intruding my freedom of speech!! I want to get rid of them!!! Knowing their characteristics, if I bla bla bla something about my job, they will definitely go spread the news to 500,000 miles on earth within half an hour. Yes, they are so "8".
Can some kind soul answer the top 2 questions I posted here?
Thursday, November 12, 2009
七分袖与羽绒服之差
昨天还穿着七分袖。
今天就穿上羽绒服，还不停的边走边在冷风中抖擞。
昨天最高气温还有21°C，今天预计只剩下11°C。我出门的时候只有7°多一点。冬天来了。
昨天晚上看一个电视节目，介绍新加坡美食，突然bui bui和我一起说，“很想念nasi lemak...”。呵呵。看到那个主持人吃得满头大汗，我们却在heater旁取暖。电视内容的那种“热”，真令人羡煞。
昨天还是难捱的周四，今天已经是周五了。Yahooo~~~~~~~~~~ 今晚开始又可以玩两天半的facebook. Haha... yah, I am addicted. It's bad.. But I really miss my restaurant, farm, chicken, and fishes in it. How ah? How ah?
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Wednesday, November 04, 2009
guai low's mindset
During a conference meeting... below conversation takes place:
sei guai low boss "is everyone sick in this meeting room? Because everyone is blowing their noses, it really worries me..."
So, I thought he is a very good and considerate boss, he cares about his staff health, and worried they are sick... but the following conversation startled me..
sei guai low boss "Because if it is, I am going to wear the mask. Sorry guys."
........
Sunday, November 01, 2009
I am addicted
I am addicted to facebook's happy restaurant.
Can you believe I dreamt about how I place my tables in the restaurant, so my waiters can serve with most efficient way and speed?
When I woke up this morning realizing what have I done, I said, "SHIT!!". This is bad... I am addicted!
点算??? luckily china banned facebook and I only get to play it once a week.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Good books?
I ordered two books from amazon china, they arrived within 2 days. No delivery fees charged. I am happy.
Very old poh poh style hor to feel happy on this small little thing?
By the way, I can't find any good books (have to be my taste also lah of course) that is written by chinese writer lately, and this, I feel disappointed. Where are the good books?
My good fren Siew Wai bought many 几米 books from amazon too... I used to like 几米 a lot, but.. later on I feel very ng dai to finish his books (some more so expensive one) within one hour. So, i stop following his book.
Then I like this japanese comics 高木直子, her famous "150cm Life" is so funny... I bought all her collection, and she never draw any new stuff lately. I am quite disappointed also. Also, I lent one of the book to my manager, she never returns also :( sob. Now my collection is "not perfect" liao. Sigh. Should I re-buy that one?
Mitch Albom also another one. No new books newly written lately. Why??
I think next trip when i go back KL, i want to buy "P.S. I Love You". I watched the dvd, it's so touching... i want to buy the books to read it. I believe this is a true story?? Anyway, cannot let bui bui knows, he hate I read or watch this kind of "grey" color movie one.
I also wasted my time reading a novel, i think the name is simi 摩天轮... that book is wasting my time. It is so sad to realized this after I spent 1 week to finish the last chapter and the story just ended like that. Chiu..... I think when she wrote that last chapter, she gup si, that's why she 草草了事. I am so disappointed.
My mom asked me to buy “我与父辈"... this one I also think not so good. His writing is really so-so only. The only good thing to get from this book is to understand how those 农民 live back in those pre and post-文化大革命 period. And I have read 1/3 already, he still hasn't written anything very touching about his dad, or his uncles; actually, he seldom talks about his dad, at least in that 1/3 pages that I read. So, I am going to give up on the 2/3 portion. Again, wasted my time lah.
Anyone has any good books to recommend lately?
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
My bui bui
That night, I cannot sleep.
Whenever I cannot sleep, I like to torture bui bui. So, this time I have some challenging questions to him.
Me, "are u asleep?" (Actually, I heard him snored already... i purposely want to wake him up)
Bui, "er.. nope.. what's up honey?"
Me, "I ask u har... if given a woman, look like me, smell like me, cook your favorite dishes like me, but just a better version of me - better shen choi with big big bor, and know how to give u great foot massage, would u choose to love her instead of me?"
Bui, "... no babe... of course not"
Me, "Why? Why you want to lie to me???? who doesn't want a better version??? U lied to me, U no good!!" I feeling pretty angry and upset, and I kicked off the blanket.
Bui, "... I didn't lie babe..."
Me, "then how could u not fall for the better version of me?"
Bui, "because if I say yes, you will hit me or kick me. I don't want that to happen again."
Me, "......" don't know want to angry or laugh, seems like bui bui learnt the lesson already.
Aih... have to think for new way to torture bui bui next time if I cannot sleep... sob.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Hong Leong Bank, sucks too
Recent phone call to their call center concludes at least to me that Hong Leong Bank sucks too, in terms of customer service. If I rated HSBC 3 stars out of 5, then HLB is worth 1.5 star.
BLEAH~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Count with my 10 fingers, I find that I have encountered different level of unpleasant experience with almost all the banks in Malaysia, except (surprisingly) CIMB and Southern Bank (does it still exist or merged with other bank liao??).
And yet in China, I have relationship with China Bank, China Merchant Bank and ICBC Bank, so far I do not have "unpleasant level" of complaint about them. I am not pro China, but hey, these 3 banks have good customer service level.
And yet, I have this love hate relationship with Hong Leong Bank. Some special 情怀... but it is really testing my patient..
Thursday, October 08, 2009
Long awaited Bali trip
The flight was long, it was like 6 hours+, sit until wants to go crazy liao. But luckily, this time my ear is ok. I wear the ear pressure regulator thing on the whole flight, 6 hours, so you can imagine when i get off the plane, is a bit coo coo already.
After reach Denpasar airport, because we booked the hotel is in Ubud, there's another 1 hour car ride. It was raining... so when we reached the hotel and after check in, it was like 1am. The guy showed us around our villa, we were so excited even though at 1am. Check it out:
Our bed - it's like those 蚊帐床, is very back to nature, and antique.
Toilet -- this is just 2/3 of the whole bathroom! We played around in the hot tub (not that same night lah, damn tired), it was really fun.
The next morning, we checked out our villa outside, all green leaves plants, trees, and got a private pool! See the private pool? So close to nature, it was such a relaxing feeling just looking at the pool.
Then went to visit the Tempaka Siring, the temple.
The 3rd day, we went water rafting. Jay was a bit uncertain about this at first because he doesn't know how to swim. But the guide kept telling us it is fun, and even if drop to the water, got jacket, it will float. So, Jay decided to give it a try, he turned to me and said, "if i drop into the water, save me!" hahhaa... We are so glad we did this activity even though we are home with sore muscles, it was so fun!!!!!!!! so fun if there are more time, i want to try again!
After water rafting, we have to climb some stairs to go back to the rafting center. And here I spotted a good view of padi field.
Before the long flight back to shanghai, and after the rough water rafting, we decided to pampered ourselves at some spa, I took a 3 hour package, and jay took his 2.5 hour package. It was so pampered I felt guilty to have such treatment. OK OK, no next time lah, gu gu jit bai! hohoho.... it was expensive the spa, there goes my dreamt PSP.. sob. [Jay made me belanja him spa, isn't him bad?!]I like Bali. Would come back again if got chance. People here although mostly not rich, but they always have the contented smile on their face. I find that balinese are not greedy, they are friendly, and they worked hard to earn their money. Bali is so far the 2nd place I went to (besides cambodia) that I feel I am blessed to be a Malaysian.
Wednesday, October 07, 2009
60th Anniversary -- 总理，您辛苦了
There are 2 lines of conversation that leaves strong impression in my head, even until this afternoon:
President Hu, hand shaking a old po po (not very old lah, probably late 50s), telling her "要照顾好身体，好日子在后头呢". I am very touched when he said that good life is waiting for them in the future. Wow.. that is very motivating.
And the second phrase that moves me, is when he talking to a canadian chinese that visited Beijing in the park, he asked her, "感觉如何?" she answered "很好，越来越好!总理，您辛苦了！"... wah... i don't know about President Hu, but I sure feel very moved and motivated. And normally it is only President Hu gets to say this phrase, "同志们，你们辛苦了！", not the other way round, "总理，您辛苦了！"
Of all the scenes that the tv news captured last night, the 老百姓 all very feel proud and excited to meet President Hu and wanted to shake his hand so badly like he is the popular singing stars like that.
Then I picture myself, what would I do if I meet our PM in Midvalley? I will not so eager go shake his hand, and I don't think he will create such a 冲动 in the crowd also, prabably those that appeared eagerly wants to shake his hand are the "actors".... if u know what i mean.. And this scene won't happen one lah... nah. Totally don't think so.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
HSBC e-statement
I want to chiong sui itu HSBC e-statement function. I think it is stupid, and I don't know who designed the HSBC internet banking because the user-interface is really not user friendly.
The history is like this:
Don't know when in June or July, I hand itchy, go and click to apply "e-statement" function on the internet banking. And, I forgot to take note that once u applied "e-statement", the paper statement won't send to you anymore. Or either I read it and I think it was OK because I thought anything with "e-" should be user-friendly, and therefore I have the impression, I should receive the electronic statement on email, periodically, no sweat. And, I thought of going-green, save paper mah, no need to mail me paper, save some trees, and save HSBC postage, and hopefully these type of saving will help HSBC more profitable and in return gives us better service.
So, very sui also, I have a 8000 bill from insurance, charged to HSBC cc card in August. I didn't know about it, didn't know it was due because no paper statement sent to my house.
Then lately I suddenly feel uneasy, and checked HSBC online, shit, that 8000 was overdue. OK never mind. I know it might be over charge with some late payment, so i ask sister to bank in 8150. With hari raya and all that, the cheque reached them late also. Never mind, people one year raya once, i have to be understanding.
Then today I very free, so i go online and check again. Blardy hell, there's still RM171 outstanding. So expensive meh, i was late for only 2 weeks+ wor? I wanted to see what's this transaction all about even though i can guess it is the interest charges from the late payment. I called the old number 03-2050 7800. This number, got an auto recording lady voice, "you should call 1300881388, this number u calling is not available from Oct 1st 2009 onwards". I was quite angry because 1) today is still sept 30, not yet Oct 1st, but the number cannot be used already. 2) can't they think of some overseas caller that do not have access to 1300 number?
So, I go online again, trying to check what customer service number I can call to check the transaction. I checked and checked, whole of main page, tak ada. Google "HSBC Malaysia Customer Service Center", tak ada. Searched back the scanned copy of last 2 month statement that my sister email me, on the statement, ALSO TAK ADA. My head already got fire at that time. Then finally, from the left panel bar, under contact center, I clicked, it doesn't show phone number immediately, it showed the email. what the..... @#$%! Then finally i found the number. Luckily got the 03 number for oversea caller, if not i tell u my head got the bomb set off already.
Called the customer service. He confirmed it is financial charges for late payment. OK, never mind, who asked me late. But then I asked him why i don't get the e-statement or paper statement? His answer threw me off, "madam, u need to generate the e-statement, and go online again next day to download the e-statement. "
wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...........
I thought anything "e-" is something generated periodically and send to email. Since no trees were killed, why can't you make this periodically?
Then maybe I sumtong for my close to 300 financal charges, I said to him, "your system is very stupid. " As a professional customer service center official, shouldn't you replied, "sorry madam" instead of replied, "for whatever reason it is madam, I will opt you out from e-statement."
Hello HSBC internet banking designer, I urge you to improve your user-interface and the logic. You can refer to Maybank, their user-interface is so logically layout, I can know the transaction with no sweat with just few clicks. Not like yours, I click and click and click still cannot get what I want and I have to call long distance phone calls and then I thought saving some trees will do every citizens good but hey, those trees cost me 300 ringgit!!! that's too much. So, I opt back paper statement.
Sigh... I angry, but I still like to use HSBC cc card wor. How? Have to gut yat seng telan the complaint and continue use their service loh, how?
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
I killed a fly
I killed a fly at my working cubicle.
Stupid fly, kept flying and kacau-ing me. And it stopped on my mouse, so long. I grabbed some paper, rolled it up, and "pak!", the sound is pretty loud in the office.
It over-turned. I very scared. Stacked 2 envelopes on top of it. Hoping the weight will kill him.
oh-ni-tu-fut, don't blame me, who asked u come kacau me today and yesterday. U crazy fly!
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Argument
I am so glad I have a group of supportive friends. By supportive, I mean they stand by me even sometimes I might not be 100% right, or the words I said are evil whenever I am "heng".
Had an argument with a high school fren yesterday. My conclusion now is, he has a small gas heart and thus he is a woman! Blardy woman! I am still very "heng" now, he acted so woman yesterday that none of my girl friends I know can beat that, so I still think he is a pussy woman.
my girl friends conforted me, "don't tiu him lah, let him small gas, u acted big heart. Let him feel bad." And Aigie another good friend of mine said, "he is a woman, ignore him." Last night I asked Jay, "say it out, he small gas right? He is a piece of shit right? He is a pussy woman! Say it!" Jay repeated after me, "yes, he is small gas, he is a piece of shit, he is a woman." Though I know he might not think alike, but at least he supports me. Babe ----- muacks.
So u stupid friend of mine, u are a pussy woman! I still heng now, what you did is immature and small gas for a man, and shame on you!
Monday, September 21, 2009
Claim
Of 12 months in a year, I think I only do expense claim (company one lah) 3 or at most 4 times, I am not those ones that do claim every month because I hate tracking whether they processed my claim, whether my claim banked in, and whether it is the right amount. Whenever it comes to $$, I will become very nervouse. I think I inherited this trait from my dad, simply because don't know it is with luck or what, when it comes to $$, people always miscounted on mine! I hate that. And the more careful I am with claim, the more careless our Finance people towards my claim. ARGHHHHHH!!!!!
For you to understand the story, you have to understand our company have very stupid claim system. We have different template and thus different print out for different kind of claim (normal claim is one template, travel expense claim is another template). My fear have always been they missed one paper, and only processed 1 claim.
It happened today. The finance people missed my travel claim and only give me my normal expense claim. I am sooooooooooo frustrated. I am frustrated because before they processed my claim, I purposely reminded them my claim has 2 sections. And, they still have the guts to make mistake.
I am really losing every bits of passion at this so called "The leader of xxxx industry, for today and tomorrow". I want to tiu kao the statement, "you idiot, you only have yesterday!!!"
So angry... so pissed. And you know what? Every time they banked in the claim, they are like thief, do it secretly and quietly, never tell you nor give you any proof they have banked in. And they do it not on fixed day (if you say you bank in every 1st monday of the month, i can still check right?). If this is not stupid, then what is this?? How I find out they missed one section of my claim? I called the bank to check. Yes, this "efficient".
HATE IT!!
Beautiful Swing?
I went hitting the golf ball at driving range on Saturday with Jay. Last time, I can hit the ball 6 or 7 times out of 10. Now, I am at 8 out of 10. Hooray!!! But, upper arm pain pain til today.. I had a few beautiful swing (by that i mean miss the ball completely) and Jay was giving all his support when I missed the ball with beautiful swing, "Babe, that was a real beautiful swing." I gave him that look. He some more added, "Hey, I mean it... just that your beautiful swing missed the ball completely". arrghh...
I am bugging Jay to buy me a women's club. He said I "3 minutes hot" only. My women's club wish maybe tak jadi.
Hitting the golf ball that has the "pop" crispy sound is very motivating and wash away all my unhappiness at work. I hope I can hit the ball 10 out of 10 next time. Or, 9 out of 10 is good enough for me to release stress.
Thursday, September 03, 2009
Unpleasant flight experience
I had an unpleasant flight experience from Beijing to Shanghai lately. The flight descended too fast and pressure was too much for my ear at that time. I couldn't really hear a thing, and for 5 seconds, there's this piercing pain in my right ear. After I reached the ground, I still cannot hear clearly. You know, it's like someone is covering your ear when you speak and therefore u cannot hear clearly.
That was Thursday night.
I went to see doctor on Saturday because I was very afraid this will have long term effect. Normally within 2 hours after touch the ground, my ear will regulate back to normal. This time, it's more than 48 hours. Doctor see see my ear, and just give me a prescription of something spray into my nose.
I went to see doctor again today because I don't feel any much better. This time, I asked for different doctor. This doctor is more thorough. He said he saw my right ear got a small hole pierced, with some blood stain. I was shocked, and worried. Doctor again give me some spray for the nose (both of them said my nose block, but i don't feel anything also?), and warn me no water inside the ear, cannot catch flu if not will worsen the situation, and then chew gum often to regulate the air inside it.
I am very upset, one because I worried for one of my most important organ, second because I got myself hurt because of some stupid business trip that at the first place I shouldnt' be going, someone else should be going instead of me but because of that bitch, I have to go. Anyway.. i really hope it will get better next week:(
I told my best friend Kevin about this, he told me he got his ear hole pecah too one time, because his client yelled and scolded him over the phone. My this Kevin fren is a hongkie, managerial position at a great company, it's hard to believe he also got such difficult client to yell at him. After that phone call, he cannot hear anything! He went to see doctor. Doctor told him his hole pierced due to some high pitch noise. It took him 1.5 week to heal. He comforted me it will be alright. I cannot tell you how glad I feel everytime when something bad happened to me, he will phone me and comfort me. He is really my best fren, and it's like got 心灵感应 between us, this is so weird.
Anyway, I am totally gonna get this pressure regulate thing for my next flight!!! It's costly (158 yuan) so it had better be working on me!
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Stupid KO
Recently, I have unhappy encounters at work. Very unpleasant, and I am not ready to reiterate over here on what's actually happening. All thanks to that stupid Karen Ong. How I wish suddenly one day her so called husband disappeared from shanghai and she has to follow him to disappear also. After all, Electrolux business is so lousy, I don't think her so-called husband did a good job because I still don't see Electrolux brand awareness improved in China. Bleah!
So, my career life is runied by this bitch. I offered Winston 10,000 to xxx her he also does not want to. Guess Winston taste is high.
How? I really hate this woman. How???
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Books & Chop-Chop
I am getting more and more liking China. It has Amazon.cn selling books at discounted price (and books in China is already cheap!!). I am so loving this facility.
I had gaolao as my visitor lately. As what visitor will do, they bugged me bring them to chenghuangmiao. Oi-shey.... haha.. anyway, I am honored to bring them around, because actually, everytime I go chenghuangmiao, I will buy something myself too. Sometimes is a tea-cup, sometimes is tea-container (they have damn nice tea container). And this time with gaolao, I bought a chop-chop (i called it chop chop because I don't know what is it called in English or Chinese. It's those rock, they 刻 your name on it one, and you can place your "signature" onto the book). Gao Lao bought a chop chop too but he said his one is not pretty. I love my chop chop. hahaha...
With the new chop-chop, I am more "hardworking" in reading books. I had finished 杜拉拉的升职记 (this novel is damn good, it's about those day-to-day political matters one will face in the office and at job)，a translated novel 八百万种死法 (it's about a 酗酒 detective how he discovered who killed a prostitute and a "duckie" in New York), 橙子 (it's about a china chinese woman living in france and her romance history how she met a married guy and cannot help but to fall in love but then still cannot get his total love), 星巴克咖啡救了我的生命 (how a guy got lay off from a well-known company and then make his living working in Starbucks). After finished reading them, I placed my chop chop proudly on the front page, and signed the date. Yay!!
I have few more books left. After this, I will go bookstore to see what kind of book i want to read, and come back to online at amazon.cn and buy them at discounted price. hohoho... I know I know, I am very silai. But hey, why I want to spend full price buy them at bookstore and later so heavy to bring back have to take taxi? With amazon.cn, I can place the order, it delivered to my house or office and I pay them cash upon delivery (free delivery some mroe). So, Why not?:)
Sunday, August 16, 2009
My Cai Ayi
I was sick on Saturday. Yah, wasted, if I sick on Friday, I sure no go to work.
Anyway, it was horrible. It's like my body and soul was separated. I had headache (from fever), and I kept want to sleep. I sleep and sleep and sleep until I did not bangsai that morning. Can you believe it? Sleep, eat medicine, sleep, eat lunch, sleep, eat medicine, sleep, eat dinner, etc...
Bui Bui, he has been a full day of "cai ayi" (cai is his surname, ayi is what we called here for the cleaning lady) - he do laundry, hanged clothes, do breakfast, washed plates from last night, then prepared lunch, cooked fried rice, then washed plates, then go out buy fruits, then prepare dinner, cooked dinner, then washed plates, cut fruits, stored in fridge, then take back the clothes from outside.
And all these while I was fighting with the fever, sleep, and body/soul separating thingy.
Finally, at 10pm, I was awake and felt much better, but bui bui was so tired and he dozed off watching tv... aiyoh, cannot tell you how heartache i feel...
Bui Bui, you are the best man in this world to me!!:) Muacks!!
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
KFC and Bui Bui
Bui Bui always loves to eat KFC. I don't know why... if you want to make him happy, just bring him eat KFC, he will be as happy as a kid.
Monday night, he came home from gym. Begging me letting him called KFC delivery. I think think, the last KFC delivery we had was like 3 months ago, so, I said "OK, u go call KFC".
And below conversation took place:
Bui bui:"喂，KFC, 我要叫外卖.. 对.... 对.... 我要叫那个你们最近在打广告的那个，一桶有4种口味的那个...哦，你们叫他做缤纷假日桶？对的，是这个... 尔... 我不要那个多多肉的地方，是的，傻瓜鸡胸肉我不要. 我要的那个部位...我不知道叫什么名字,但是在你们的宣传单页上，是那个“充指原味鸡”的那个部位... 那个有一点骨头又有一点肉的部位...."
at this point of time, I already beh tahan, some more he mis-mentioned a word. that word is called 吮(shun)指原味鸡，not 充(chong)指原味鸡！
I was laughing very hard, and I think the person on the phone is also laughing, because I saw bui bui have that kind of weird look on his face. hahahaa...
Bui Bui ah Bui Bui.... why you so funny one?:)
Sunday, August 02, 2009
DVD machine & Bui Bui
Yesterday, we were watching 24 hours. Suddenly, the disk cannot be read. It was stucked.
Bui Bui said must be the DVD "head" dirty already. So he dissambled the DVD machine. I was sweating when he did that. Because, he seems cannot do this kind of household fixing stuff well.. very lun lun chun chun. Anyway, I no eye see, so I go kitchen cook bakuteh.
After i gao dim everything I came out to living room. I saw him trying to play but no image. Then you guess what happened? Because he didn't connect back the white, yellow and red wire, of course no image can be sent to TV lah. I was laughing so hard... almost fell onto the floor...
Sigh... no one is perfect eh? I always think back what will dad do in this situation. He sure very smart won't forget to connect back the wire one. My dad is a great household fixing person. However, sometimes he swear while he was fixing stuff because he lack of patient. :)
Anyway, good thing is, the DVD machine is back to working stage now:)
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
一个人在家的一个下午
那天，一个人在家。本来好好地，突然有一个想法，趁老妈不在，到琴房和老爸说说话去。
琴房是老爸身前最爱待的一个房间，里面有他爱的黑胶碟唱机，有他最爱的country side音乐黑胶碟，有几架小提琴，还有一架钢琴。我想，除了country side music能给他带来平静，看着那些不同大小的小提琴，他也回忆我们小时侯，他开车載进载出带我们去上小提琴课的日子吧？他最proud of 的日子。
琴房现在的墙壁上还有很多照片，有婆婆、公公、阿嫲、还有我老爸。他们都不在了。老爸去世后，我们都很少进来这个房间，尤其是妈妈。
对着老爸的遗照、我说着说着话，竟然抽泣起来。我跟他说我很想念他，不知道他过的好吗？他的地方有没有他爱听的黑胶碟唱片？有没有花生吃？有没有人跟他抓抓背、捏捏颈？然后我跟爸爸说，要保佑阿觅。她太苦了，从小有那个病。这次的手术一定要成功，换她一个正常的生活。阿觅说，中医说这种手术会缩短生命的，我告诉阿觅说，你要quality还是quantity??给你活到长长但是如果常给这个病折磨，这种生活要来干嘛？所以我叫老爸一定要保佑她的手术，一定要痊愈得好。
说完了哭完了，我去看旧照片album。看着20年前老爸开心的搂着我们三个小瓜拍的照片，又忍不住哭一轮。刚好有一张是1989年8月5日拍的，整整20年前后，竟然人就不在，我们三个也长大成人了。也看到老妈为了我们三个小瓜，美丽的容貌已不在、换来的是现在苍老垂落的脸孔和发胖的身体。我几乎也忘了，老妈也年轻过、美丽过、纤瘦过。
唉，突然很感触。这就是人的cycle吗？慢慢吞噬自己的青春，为的是建筑孩子的未来。
昨天妹妹出院了，手术蛮成功的。妈妈还说，出院的前一晚，她梦到老爸来医院站在病床前看阿觅。我跟妈妈说，如果下一次再梦到老爸，记得提醒他还有另一个女儿，也很想见见他呢：）
Monday, June 22, 2009
Raksasa
Sibeh raksasa, everything also want her hands on, everything she also wants to give approval. And because of this, she slowing me down on so many projects. Should I care? Absolutely not, because if in the end of the day something came up wrong, I will just answer "not me causing delay. It's the approval from RM delaying it ok?"
Sibeh raksasa, hari hari set up conference call. And she likes to scold people in conference call if someone disagree of her point of view. And, now is 1.38pm, supposed the conference call is from 1pm, she still not activated the conference call. 40 minutes late. Arghhh!!!!
Sibeh raksasa!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Friday, June 19, 2009
Belated blog about a trip to 张家界
We met a very friendly, honest driver. He is so young (younger than my sister), and, his car was quite upclass, and clean. And he treats us like king and queen, even bought us a map, and the price he quote us to bring us around, is not expensive at all (I did do some search on baidu before going to the trip, so I roughly know what's the price for certain stuff). We feel so glad to met him the night we arrived.
We went to so many mountains, mountains over mountain, cable car after cable car, and most mountain looks like a d*ck... if you get what I mean. Well, as soon as I made that ocmment during the trip, I slipped over a rock. I was standing on top of a big rock, beside me got river, and taking a photo. It was very painful when I fell, it's like someone slap my butt. So, I think the "mountain god" is punishing me for saying he looks like a d*ck. hahha... bleah.
This is an outdoor elevator just built at the cliff. Damn siok!
Anyway, after 2 weeks liao, I feel so lazy to go over the detail again. Just paste the picture loh:) I really enjoyed this trip. It's very relaxing and close to nature trip.
p/s: more photos on facebook.
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
妈妈和舅舅的寻根记
妈妈和舅舅来上海玩10天。妈妈是第三次来了，如果算上7年前举家来上海游玩的那一次，那就是第四次了。舅舅是第一次。他开玩笑的说，他是来寻根的。呵呵。
我的外婆和外公，都是纯真的上海人。基于某种原因，他们在很年轻的时候就来到南洋，就落地生根了。妈妈和舅舅都是在新加坡出生的。外婆一直都有写信联络她在中国的舅舅。但是，就仅仅是外婆在做联系咯，没有人在乎这件事，没有人过问中国的亲戚到底是怎么样的、住哪里？没有人知道这里还有什么人。
后来，外婆突然在7-8年前的一个夜晚，在睡梦中撒手人世。从此以后，就更没有人知道中国这边的connection了（外公早在10几年前就去世了）。
原来，人老了，真的想寻根的。我舅舅和妈妈这一趟，就有这么一丁点儿的想法。舅舅靠着他的记忆（他记得外婆时常写信的时候，地址是复兴西路xxx弄xxx号。他就问我，上海有没有这一条路呢？我说，当然有，地段不要太好哦！
我们周日下午，去了田子坊就到复兴西路，在出租车上倒数着弄堂数，突然，看到那个号码，心都要跳出来了。本来没有目的的到访，真没有想到竟然有这个弄，这个号，房子就在眼前。
下了车，舅舅先是狂拍了一轮照片。然后，他敲门。没有人应。舅舅就推门进去（舅舅胆子很大的）。里面还有一个房门，一个厨房，还有楼上。找到一个老头，和一个老太。老头很温顺，老太很上海女人，舌尖嘴利，她深怕我们取回房子（房子现在好像是归国家了，他们是住在这套房子里,free），把我们打发出去，说不认识我的曾舅舅（妈妈的妈妈的爸爸的弟弟还是哥哥）。
我的舅舅，回去待了几天，昨天说要去再找这个老头。真的狠巧，舅舅到的时候，老头正从外面回到家里，而且老太不在（老太不是老头的老婆，他们是不同的两户住客）。老头很友善，有问必答，告诉了我舅舅，曾舅舅曾经在哪里做事，叫我舅舅打去那边的人事部问一下。
我在百度搜了一下那个单位的电话号码，舅舅就打去问了（又是很胆子大的行为）。第一通电话，他们查下来，没有这个人，但是，那个人事部的人很热心，说可能是他们隔壁家的（next door, different company name by a bit)。舅舅就打去隔壁家的单位，他们竟然认识我们的曾舅舅（已经退休25年）！！给了我们他家的电话。我舅舅打过去，心里想，曾舅舅年纪这么大了，可能不在了（他已经90多岁数了）。So he asked for his son。接电话的是我的曾舅母，她说他不在。舅舅就想到搏一搏，就问我的曾舅舅在不在，她说“请等一下” next thing you know, my jiu jiu is talking to his grand jiu jiu... 他们约了明天见面！
整个寻根过程就是这样误打误撞下完成。首先，亏我舅舅这把年纪了还记得那个地址，然后是遇到好心的老头给我们指点，然后又是遇到他单位里好人，把电话给了我们，然后我那个曾舅舅竟然还活着！这一切都太妙了！
Good friend Aigie said I am a 1/4 shanghainese. I think think, no, not 1/4, I am 1/2 shanghainese, because my mom's side is 100% shanghainese. Wow... amazing leh... I am so excited about this root-finding incident. I can imagine how my mom and jiujiu is feeling now. It's like some important document went missing for so many years, and you finally found it back!
如果外婆还活着，该有多好。她做梦想也不会想到她的孙子，现在竟然在上海工作生活，她的孩子，竟然在这趟旅游找到失散的舅舅！
Naked in Facebook
My manager just added me to her facebook last week... so from now on I have to watch out my languae in facebook... bleah:(
In her understanding, I am very guai guai type, so, cannot use foul language.
In her understanding, I don't have conflict with colleagues except raksasa, so, I cannot bitch about colleagues on facebook (which I don't remember I have done that yet... anyway)
Aiyah, very mah fan lah now, I feel I don't have privacy liao:( But, takkan don't add her right? She will be curious if I don't add her... hor?
Hmmmm... this feels like I am just wearing bra-bra in front of her... almost naked. Tiu lah, cannot talk freely liao... help~~~~~~
Monday, June 08, 2009
orh si also ng duk han
I have experienced this today. Mah de, I woke up by myself at 8.15am (the stupid alarm clock, I am gonna throw you away, you dumb ass, not functioning when I needed you most), annoyed, stressed, rushed and therefore, did not have my usual bangsai session. Arghh...
Just finished the S&M meeting, which is a great relief, although there are many many many more coming this month on ppt preparations, budget, cut budget, increase forecast, wah lao eh... why?? why??? Sei Guai Low dumb ass, why must you create global financial crisis?
Coming soon, the update on 张家界 during the dumpling festival: We visited many mountains, different shapes, different look, different cable cars (it's amazing, I finally concluded that China has the most advanced cable cars on the earth, I think), and, different height. I was very afraid of height, there's 1 cable car ride made my face turn white and I almost cried inside the cable car with hands shaking because the cable car was climbing across cliff, at45 to 60 degree inclination!
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Depressing mode
As the 1 year anniversary draw nearer and nearer, I kept flashing back, what was I doing 1 year ago?
1 year ago I still have my dad, alive, not sick, but I didn't try to call him and talk to him more. It was just like normal old days, I spoke to him only when he was at home and answered the phone when I was calling mom. Whenever I have things not going my way, I told my mom, and my mom told my dad, and he will text me with comforting words. I took those sms as granted, I never saved any of them, I deleted them. How regretful I feel now.
I still remember last year in June, I was frantically preparing for the local VIP show. And suddenly things happened, phone calls ringing, and it ruined my life. I still remember how I broke into tears when I asking for few hours off from work from my manager because I need to go buy air ticket to fly off next day, and how good my manager was, she told me don't worry about work, she can cover for me on the whole VIP show preparation.
I still remember that night, I almost wet my whole pillow because I cannot stop crying. And Jay was in his U.S. trip. I was dealing all these alone.
I still remember how I have to turn down Nicole's invitation to her house to eat dinner because her mom was cooking.
I still remember I was texting my dad that night, but forgot that he was too weak to have the phone with him. My sister brought his phone back to house. Anyway, he couldn't have used the phone because he was in ICU the next day, after the big operation, which is a mistaken operation. Many times I wonder, what if he didn't go through that operation, would he have lived more months. And the KK Foo that was the surgeon, I can still remember how unprofessional he was, in dealing with my questions, at that emotional stage, and how he showed his "please punch me" face. His ugly face!
I also remembered how cold was the KLIA airport that day when I arrived. Did the A/C spoilt that day? None of the people I met in the airport have happy face. Do they also have a dying dad? If not, why they have sour face? Jay's arrangement of having his best friend Eric picking me up from airport even though I assure him I can take the taxi is a wise move. It's comforting to know that you have friends care about you and your family during those period of time. I also remember I wept at Eric's car, and luckily he has a tissue box because I finished mine.
I miss my dad:( He didn't let me dream of him anymore. I really wonder where does people go when they died. And what went through their head when they breath out last breathe. By the way, I don't believe there's heaven or Jesus or prayers being heard this kind of rubbish. It makes me depressed thinking of this.
Where is my dad???
Sunday, May 24, 2009
My Cookie
I have a new phone, his name is Cookie! Hoo Hoo...
I had it for a week, but I was busy trying understands him more with each day passed. It's a cool phone! I like it. OK, if you are comparing it with the iphone, then iphone is still cooler lah (Why I no buy iphone? Because I am a woman, woman changes mind so easily! I was thinking of getting Nokia N71, but when I go into the store, I am so confused with so many sleaky phones, and they all waving at me with their best put-up face and function.. haha). Actually, the first few days after I got this phone, I don't like it, I was so resisting to change and I was still using the sony ericsson, I even have the thought give this phone to my mom to use and I get the Nokia N71. But the more I discover this Cookie, the more I fall in love with it. Haha.
I installed games with GPRS over the weekend, so now I can play my favorite tetris and sudoku on the phone. Yay!
And it can edit photos, for instance the kawaii look icons and font. Hahaha.. ok, this is not the reason I buy this phone, but I am surprised with this function:)
And I can pulled out 9 persons as my most favorite contact so I have short cut key to call that person or write sms to that person.
It's a touch screen phone, with your thumb or the pen. hohoho.. this means, I can type chinese sms even faster!!! (now this is the reason I buy this phone!)
And the phone is thin!
And it has gravity sense! (if you flip it 90 degree, it will display in portrait format)
And, it's not expensive! (meaning if i get bored of it, i can change to new phone without feeling guilty)
I plan to get this phone with my money from the start. When I was pulling out my wallet to pay in the store, bui bui offered to buy for me! I was very touched. (actually, the last sony ericsson s500 phone, bui bui bought for me one, and he make me promised the phone has to last more than 2 years. It only lasted 1 year 4 months++ so by right, I have to pay by myself one) Yoh... why bui bui so nice one:)
p/s: I put my sony ericsson back into the box, to store it away. It's still a nice looking phone. But, sony ericsson has to do better job next time. He just lost a customer. I won't use any sony ericsson phone anymore loh. The next phone I will use is either LG again, Nokia, or iphone.
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Where is my necklace?
Bui Bui always wear a phiten necklace, the one that's supposed to reduce your neck muscle strain with magnetic balancing, something like that.
This morning, before he goes to work, he walk in and out of the bedroom finding the necklace. Normally, this kind of behavior only happens at me at home because I am the type will forget where I put the stuff. There was one time I cannot find my glasses and I suspect it was broken by my cleaning lady Ayi and she threw it away to hide the facts (you see, I can have a very good imagination sometimes). Turns out that bui bui found it covered by my clothes on a chair.
So, I asked Bui Bui "could it be you left it in the gym when you took the shower last night?" "Cannot be, I was shaving at home last night, it was on my neck!".
Ignoring him, I quickly dress up and get ready to go out. This week got the guai low boss visiting our office. I don't know why ALL guailow bosses that I known of so far, likes to have early meeting.
Just when I was wearing my shoes, Bui Bui suddenly exclaimed with shyness tone, "Babe, I found it." I was puzzled and excited, "Where?" I asked. Bui Bui answered, "it was on my neck all these while."
I almost pengsan. What about you?
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Amazon Kindle
Then I read a magazine, introducing an e-book reading device, from Amazon, called Kindle. It's now on my wishlist. This device is so cool I read about it's introduction on YouTube (now, who said advertisement must be on TV commercial or magazine?), the word "wireless", "light", "thin", "longlasting battery life" catches my attention immediately.
I wonder can I find it in China. If I can find in China, can I download the e-book content wirelessly with some small fees? Aiyoh... very gun cheong now. Must find out this weekend. Heard the second generation is coming out soon tim... ooo...
It's slightly cheaper than i-phone. And I heard, it works well with i-phone too, I have to find out what it means by that, because as far as I know, the smarty i-phone have every function, but not e-book.
Thursday, May 07, 2009
What do you want DL?!
Lately I saw a documentary show about dogs. I feel like I want to own a dog.
I saw my friends kept saying bicycling is additive (in developed country though). I felt like having a bike too.
Friend told me Share A is worth investing, I calculating my capital, see if I have enough to own it or not.
Then Aigie suggesting trips to go on the coming Dumpling Day (public holiday), I wanted to go so many places but only have 4 days off. Near near trip within China I not interested liao. Far far trip needs at least 5 or 6 days I don't dare to take any more leaves I think I am black listed on big boss blackberry (haha... cialat!).
Then over the lunch, my colleague kept telling me the stuff about his little baby (6 months old). I feel like I want baby with Jay.
Why I have so many needs? Keep wanting this and that. I really bengan thinking about options... arrghhh.. "What do you want DL?!"
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
打小人
最近工作很不舒心，因为来了一个死小人。这个女人，我恨不得拔她的皮，然后雇一个bangladesh去鸡奸她。这个死女人，听说她离过婚，因为那时候她跟公司的男人睡了，前夫知道后，把她给休掉。之后她就吊了一个前公司的男人做男朋友，这个男的最近被调到上海，所以她也跟着尾巴，没明没分的来。这个男的在Electrolux做，所以有时候我也会跟我朋友说起今天electrolux bitch 对我怎么样怎么样。对了，我称她为electrolux bitch!
因为很恨她，就想起香港盛行的“打小人”，去google搜了一下，竟然还有标准的打小人咒语，你看？很搞笑的。呵呵。
死女人！我下一次去香港，一定花40元去打你这个死小人！
Saturday, April 11, 2009
New life
顽强的生命—谢谢你让我感悟到有生命是美好的！
Tuesday, April 07, 2009
阳朔之旅
I am back from Yangshuo! Yay, another accomplishment. I told Jay this is it, there's nothing else in China interests me anymore. I have been to most if not all, of the most interesting places in China! All done with my honey:-)
It's a very relaxing trip because we managed our own itenary and time. Luckily it's not with tour group, if not, they sure bring us see the yong-tree (very old one wor), and the 岩洞 which it is not my cup of tea. I have seen it else where, so I can imagine what's inside, and it's boring.
Actually, the only interesting thing in Yangshuo, is the mountain. Let pictures do the talking. We also did hot-air balloon, it was fun!! But the fog is a bit thick so we cannot see clear clear view like those in the postcard picture, but it is good enough, see the view? 
We went to see the 刘三姐印象, actually, from just the name it sounds very boring and kampung feel, liu san jie wor.... but I read so many good comment about this show, and it is not cheap. In China, anything not cheap should be good. hahahha... so, we went to watch the show. It was fantastic!!! The way they use the lights and colors and include 600 people to complete the play, is so fascinating. The director is 张艺谋, he uses "light bulbs" in one of the show (very "Olympic" feel), it was so fascinating. Camera cannot capture how beautiful it is... if you ever go yangshuo, please, cannot miss this show.
After the show, it was almost 9pm, we sit on the "public transportation" to bring us to West Street 西街. This street is so happening at night time. We had our dinner there, walk walk, see see, before we know it, it was almost 11.30pm. There's a lot of happening pub at West street. And almost all restaurant on that street has perfect English menu, ngor mun nei sei mei? hahaha...
The next day, we did cycling. I was so regret why I didn't ask for the double-cycle so Jay can do the pedaling and I just sit behind comfortably. I am so small guts when it comes to cycling. Whenever any vehicle hon behind me, I stopped. I am not good at cycling. Nevertheless, this does not stop us from enjoying the boat ride later on, and the view along the river:
On the 3rd day, we went to 龙脊梯田，it's a 3 hour car ride. Wah, sit until butt butt also pain. But the view is worth the pain. The driver told us the best view is in May and October. Our this time of the year, can only see some shape. Sob sob... but never mind lah, let the imagination run wild. hehe... We climbed a lot of staircase that day, the air is so fresh there (like our Cameron Highland), and people there are very friendly, "real", and they look happy. No cunning faces as in Shanghai.
We had lunch at one of the local's house, actually, it was her restaurant, but she kept saying, "come to my house for lunch". The lady is very friendly. She even owns the "hotel". Can stay there one. We ordered our lunch, and her son cook for us, so funny. hahaha... but don't play play, her son quite leng chai one, and his cooking is quite good:)
Can you see my tired face walking down the staircase? hehe...
There, finished the Yangshuo trip. It's a relaxing trip with 山山水水. :-)
