I am really not a Malaysia tourist fans (the weather is too hot to enjoy any scenic visit), but since my mom likes melaka so much, so we went there over the weekend. But this trip is very relaxing and with great food. All the famous food that requires lining up are tasted by us with no lining requirement! Hohoho... wise choice to go there during non-long-weekend eh?!!
Sunday, February 07, 2010
Melaka Trip with mom & sis
Friday, January 08, 2010
2010 - Heliu~~~~~
Have been missing in action for a while. Been to the states to find my brother with mom and sister. It was a long journey (plane)... I am very against taking plane more than 5 hours after this trip. The long hour flight makes u doubt that time has stopped and we were being trapped in a small cabin, forever! Cannot tell you how happy to land feet on ground when finally reached Pudong Airport!
The trip in The States is fantastic: Washington DC, New York, Florida, and of course, the state my brother is staying in now to complete his phD - Virginia's Blacksburg! (Now only know i know many town in the states ends with "..burg", it means town, the burg thingy is from german people last time). Few things I walked away with in this trip:
Levis Jeans and Lesportsac bags in the outlet in U.S. are so so so cheap!!! The happiest day of this trip, besides seeing mickey mouse in Florida, and buying M&M at NYC's time square, is shopping at outlet in Florida!! Women eh? hehehe...
I am officially a housewife now, I started to enjoy this changes from day 1. My main task now is just to make Jay very happy at dinner time, and make myself very happy during day time (do whatever i want), no need to gek hei because of those stupid corporate politics, no need to endure the fake laughters from the bitch karen ong, and no need to feel unhappy at work. Hooray!!!!
Close to 4.30pm now... in another 1 hour time, I will start to prepare dinner:) I hope my enjoyment of this will carry on forever (knowing myself will get sick of things after 1 week or 2 weeks or so...).
So, everybody is preparing for Chinese New Year now?
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Last day in M
Today is my last day in M.
You know in 孙悟空 story, there's always a monster but disguise in normal/pretty face? Well, the "raksasa" in my company is like that. I showed her picture to my friends, only my best fren Aigie said "she is ugly" because she is supporting me, other people said she looks fine and doens't look like someone that will do ugly things to others. 人不可貌相 is the only answer I can give to my friends.
This stupid woman, is really a raksasa, disguise under the lamb fake outer shell. This blardy woman. Today I sent out farewell email, she is the 1st one to open and read it even though she is having a meeting with a 4A company, can you believe how tension she is? She must be afraid that I will say bad things about her, 唱衰她! Hey I ain't raksasa. I only said bad things to good friends like Aigie, Winston, Nicole, Esther. And among them, only Aigie knows everything. To other friends, I only tell them "raksasa in my office make my life in hell" and hide the details (partly because I also feel sian talk about her sui staff). And to other colleagues in office, I have never said a bad thing about her. But I guess I should!!!!!! Sibeh raksasa!!!!!!!!!!!!
My hubby hate her so much, he said he wanted to punch her at her face.
Having said all that... I am relief!!!!!!!!! Yay!!!!!!!!! No need torture myself come to work everyday (come to work is not tortured, come to work under her is torturing). No need to drag my soul to do things I dont like to do (I get asked to do no meaning things, because she boh song me). No need to laugh at her fake sibeh jokes!!!!!!!! And no need to hurt my eyes (she always wear low cleve shirts even in winter, to show her breast cleavarage! WHORE!).
I hate her. But I love my new life. Yay!!!!!!!!!!! Sibeh Karen Ong, you can continue do your fake things and enjoy all the fake excitement in your life with fake laughters and be a fake step-mom to your stupid lover's kids (he must be blind to fall in love with u, a divorcee with so many fake history)! Enjoy your life!!! And hey, what goes around, COMES around! I will just wait when is your ugly black heart get exposed to all people!!!
Tuesday, December 08, 2009
My new toy
Sunday, December 06, 2009
《殺人犯》 (Murderer)
(I am very afraid of ghost movie)
Jay sweared it was not a ghost movie. He said it's just normal movie. So at the end, I watch with him.
It was a fantastic movie!!!!!! This is one of the best movie I have watched in this year. Ichiban!!! Aaron Kwok's skill has improved so much again after the movie "父与子". He is great! And the director of this movie is so young, and yet the plot he had is so good!
The only thing i cannot understand is, which parents will allow their kid to go shoot for such a movie? I will never let my son to go shoot for this kind of movie. This is so unhealthy for their mental development... eee....
Anyway, I don't want to say much here. Those of u who haven't seen this movie, should try to watch it :)
Thursday, November 26, 2009
Bitch!!
I really beh tahan this bitch!!!!!!!
If she die in front of me right now, I will clap my hand until my hand rosak!
I am so pissed off, I secretly took her picture during one of the bloody team lunch where she as usual, so fakefully talking to my boss (my boss reprts to her! and thus, u can imagine my reporting line) "oh i am getting married in CNY.. hhohohohoo... yah... oh since this is my second marriage, i only do small small lah. just invite people to my house only.. hohohohoho... yah.. it's also his second marriage... hohohohohoho".
I really beh tahan on how she treated me, I printed out her photo in color, and use the pen to duk her face all over until it's a bit koyak now! This blardy woman!!!!!!!! I hope one day she will taste her own doing!!!!!!!!!!
BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monday, November 23, 2009
Life is unfair
Life is pretty unfair hor?
Good people get tortured with difficulties, while bad people seems to enjoy life - bad people getting pregnant with no pregnancy difficulties, eat eat eat and so fat while good people pregnant with twins and just diagnose it is a monoamniotic twins with some risk of survival; bitch that sucks in people management and only good at office affair by tui-ing around is climbing coporate ladder; 忘恩负义 people 嫁女儿抱孙; good people with great contribution to society died early while beggars on the street have no purpose in life day after day appear on the street beg for money.
Don't know what to say when think of this. Life is very unfair.
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Some questions about facebook friendlist
Knowing there are some colleagues in my facebook, has restricted my freedom of speech in facebook. I cannot talk about my work, my job, and I cannot release my tension here with that bitch in the office! Argh!!
Does anyone know if I delete the contact, what is the answer to following question?:
- would they know? is there a notification sent to them telling them I have deleted them from my contact list?
- would they still able to read my stuff? (updates, photos?) I have already chose the option "only my friends can view".
And also, I always curious, for those that sent you request to add as friend, if you choose "decline", would they know? Since I don't know they will know if I cancel them or not, I normally just leave it, do nothing. But the thing is, it is very irritating to see "you have 5 friends request" on the top left panel. Err....!!
I feel those colleagues adding me to their facebook friendlist is intruding my freedom of speech!! I want to get rid of them!!! Knowing their characteristics, if I bla bla bla something about my job, they will definitely go spread the news to 500,000 miles on earth within half an hour. Yes, they are so "8".
Can some kind soul answer the top 2 questions I posted here?
Thursday, November 12, 2009
七分袖与羽绒服之差
昨天还穿着七分袖。
今天就穿上羽绒服,还不停的边走边在冷风中抖擞。
昨天最高气温还有21°C,今天预计只剩下11°C。我出门的时候只有7°多一点。冬天来了。
昨天晚上看一个电视节目,介绍新加坡美食,突然bui bui和我一起说,“很想念nasi lemak...”。呵呵。看到那个主持人吃得满头大汗,我们却在heater旁取暖。电视内容的那种“热”,真令人羡煞。
昨天还是难捱的周四,今天已经是周五了。Yahooo~~~~~~~~~~ 今晚开始又可以玩两天半的facebook. Haha... yah, I am addicted. It's bad.. But I really miss my restaurant, farm, chicken, and fishes in it. How ah? How ah?
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Wednesday, November 04, 2009
guai low's mindset
During a conference meeting... below conversation takes place:
sei guai low boss "is everyone sick in this meeting room? Because everyone is blowing their noses, it really worries me..."
So, I thought he is a very good and considerate boss, he cares about his staff health, and worried they are sick... but the following conversation startled me..
sei guai low boss "Because if it is, I am going to wear the mask. Sorry guys."
........
Sunday, November 01, 2009
I am addicted
I am addicted to facebook's happy restaurant.
Can you believe I dreamt about how I place my tables in the restaurant, so my waiters can serve with most efficient way and speed?
When I woke up this morning realizing what have I done, I said, "SHIT!!". This is bad... I am addicted!
点算??? luckily china banned facebook and I only get to play it once a week.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Good books?
I ordered two books from amazon china, they arrived within 2 days. No delivery fees charged. I am happy.
Very old poh poh style hor to feel happy on this small little thing?
By the way, I can't find any good books (have to be my taste also lah of course) that is written by chinese writer lately, and this, I feel disappointed. Where are the good books?
My good fren Siew Wai bought many 几米 books from amazon too... I used to like 几米 a lot, but.. later on I feel very ng dai to finish his books (some more so expensive one) within one hour. So, i stop following his book.
Then I like this japanese comics 高木直子, her famous "150cm Life" is so funny... I bought all her collection, and she never draw any new stuff lately. I am quite disappointed also. Also, I lent one of the book to my manager, she never returns also :( sob. Now my collection is "not perfect" liao. Sigh. Should I re-buy that one?
Mitch Albom also another one. No new books newly written lately. Why??
I think next trip when i go back KL, i want to buy "P.S. I Love You". I watched the dvd, it's so touching... i want to buy the books to read it. I believe this is a true story?? Anyway, cannot let bui bui knows, he hate I read or watch this kind of "grey" color movie one.
I also wasted my time reading a novel, i think the name is simi 摩天轮... that book is wasting my time. It is so sad to realized this after I spent 1 week to finish the last chapter and the story just ended like that. Chiu..... I think when she wrote that last chapter, she gup si, that's why she 草草了事. I am so disappointed.
My mom asked me to buy “我与父辈"... this one I also think not so good. His writing is really so-so only. The only good thing to get from this book is to understand how those 农民 live back in those pre and post-文化大革命 period. And I have read 1/3 already, he still hasn't written anything very touching about his dad, or his uncles; actually, he seldom talks about his dad, at least in that 1/3 pages that I read. So, I am going to give up on the 2/3 portion. Again, wasted my time lah.
Anyone has any good books to recommend lately?
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
My bui bui
That night, I cannot sleep.
Whenever I cannot sleep, I like to torture bui bui. So, this time I have some challenging questions to him.
Me, "are u asleep?" (Actually, I heard him snored already... i purposely want to wake him up)
Bui, "er.. nope.. what's up honey?"
Me, "I ask u har... if given a woman, look like me, smell like me, cook your favorite dishes like me, but just a better version of me - better shen choi with big big bor, and know how to give u great foot massage, would u choose to love her instead of me?"
Bui, "... no babe... of course not"
Me, "Why? Why you want to lie to me???? who doesn't want a better version??? U lied to me, U no good!!" I feeling pretty angry and upset, and I kicked off the blanket.
Bui, "... I didn't lie babe..."
Me, "then how could u not fall for the better version of me?"
Bui, "because if I say yes, you will hit me or kick me. I don't want that to happen again."
Me, "......" don't know want to angry or laugh, seems like bui bui learnt the lesson already.
Aih... have to think for new way to torture bui bui next time if I cannot sleep... sob.
Sunday, October 11, 2009
Hong Leong Bank, sucks too
Recent phone call to their call center concludes at least to me that Hong Leong Bank sucks too, in terms of customer service. If I rated HSBC 3 stars out of 5, then HLB is worth 1.5 star.
BLEAH~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Count with my 10 fingers, I find that I have encountered different level of unpleasant experience with almost all the banks in Malaysia, except (surprisingly) CIMB and Southern Bank (does it still exist or merged with other bank liao??).
And yet in China, I have relationship with China Bank, China Merchant Bank and ICBC Bank, so far I do not have "unpleasant level" of complaint about them. I am not pro China, but hey, these 3 banks have good customer service level.
And yet, I have this love hate relationship with Hong Leong Bank. Some special 情怀... but it is really testing my patient..
Thursday, October 08, 2009
Long awaited Bali trip
The flight was long, it was like 6 hours+, sit until wants to go crazy liao. But luckily, this time my ear is ok. I wear the ear pressure regulator thing on the whole flight, 6 hours, so you can imagine when i get off the plane, is a bit coo coo already.
After reach Denpasar airport, because we booked the hotel is in Ubud, there's another 1 hour car ride. It was raining... so when we reached the hotel and after check in, it was like 1am. The guy showed us around our villa, we were so excited even though at 1am. Check it out:
Our bed - it's like those 蚊帐床, is very back to nature, and antique.



















The 3rd day, we went water rafting. Jay was a bit uncertain about this at first because he doesn't know how to swim. But the guide kept telling us it is fun, and even if drop to the water, got jacket, it will float. So, Jay decided to give it a try, he turned to me and said, "if i drop into the water, save me!" hahhaa... We are so glad we did this activity even though we are home with sore muscles, it was so fun!!!!!!!! so fun if there are more time, i want to try again!








I like Bali. Would come back again if got chance. People here although mostly not rich, but they always have the contented smile on their face. I find that balinese are not greedy, they are friendly, and they worked hard to earn their money. Bali is so far the 2nd place I went to (besides cambodia) that I feel I am blessed to be a Malaysian.
Wednesday, October 07, 2009
60th Anniversary -- 总理,您辛苦了
There are 2 lines of conversation that leaves strong impression in my head, even until this afternoon:
President Hu, hand shaking a old po po (not very old lah, probably late 50s), telling her "要照顾好身体,好日子在后头呢". I am very touched when he said that good life is waiting for them in the future. Wow.. that is very motivating.
And the second phrase that moves me, is when he talking to a canadian chinese that visited Beijing in the park, he asked her, "感觉如何?" she answered "很好,越来越好!总理,您辛苦了!"... wah... i don't know about President Hu, but I sure feel very moved and motivated. And normally it is only President Hu gets to say this phrase, "同志们,你们辛苦了!", not the other way round, "总理,您辛苦了!"
Of all the scenes that the tv news captured last night, the 老百姓 all very feel proud and excited to meet President Hu and wanted to shake his hand so badly like he is the popular singing stars like that.
Then I picture myself, what would I do if I meet our PM in Midvalley? I will not so eager go shake his hand, and I don't think he will create such a 冲动 in the crowd also, prabably those that appeared eagerly wants to shake his hand are the "actors".... if u know what i mean.. And this scene won't happen one lah... nah. Totally don't think so.
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
HSBC e-statement
I want to chiong sui itu HSBC e-statement function. I think it is stupid, and I don't know who designed the HSBC internet banking because the user-interface is really not user friendly.
The history is like this:
Don't know when in June or July, I hand itchy, go and click to apply "e-statement" function on the internet banking. And, I forgot to take note that once u applied "e-statement", the paper statement won't send to you anymore. Or either I read it and I think it was OK because I thought anything with "e-" should be user-friendly, and therefore I have the impression, I should receive the electronic statement on email, periodically, no sweat. And, I thought of going-green, save paper mah, no need to mail me paper, save some trees, and save HSBC postage, and hopefully these type of saving will help HSBC more profitable and in return gives us better service.
So, very sui also, I have a 8000 bill from insurance, charged to HSBC cc card in August. I didn't know about it, didn't know it was due because no paper statement sent to my house.
Then lately I suddenly feel uneasy, and checked HSBC online, shit, that 8000 was overdue. OK never mind. I know it might be over charge with some late payment, so i ask sister to bank in 8150. With hari raya and all that, the cheque reached them late also. Never mind, people one year raya once, i have to be understanding.
Then today I very free, so i go online and check again. Blardy hell, there's still RM171 outstanding. So expensive meh, i was late for only 2 weeks+ wor? I wanted to see what's this transaction all about even though i can guess it is the interest charges from the late payment. I called the old number 03-2050 7800. This number, got an auto recording lady voice, "you should call 1300881388, this number u calling is not available from Oct 1st 2009 onwards". I was quite angry because 1) today is still sept 30, not yet Oct 1st, but the number cannot be used already. 2) can't they think of some overseas caller that do not have access to 1300 number?
So, I go online again, trying to check what customer service number I can call to check the transaction. I checked and checked, whole of main page, tak ada. Google "HSBC Malaysia Customer Service Center", tak ada. Searched back the scanned copy of last 2 month statement that my sister email me, on the statement, ALSO TAK ADA. My head already got fire at that time. Then finally, from the left panel bar, under contact center, I clicked, it doesn't show phone number immediately, it showed the email. what the..... @#$%! Then finally i found the number. Luckily got the 03 number for oversea caller, if not i tell u my head got the bomb set off already.
Called the customer service. He confirmed it is financial charges for late payment. OK, never mind, who asked me late. But then I asked him why i don't get the e-statement or paper statement? His answer threw me off, "madam, u need to generate the e-statement, and go online again next day to download the e-statement. "
wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...........
I thought anything "e-" is something generated periodically and send to email. Since no trees were killed, why can't you make this periodically?
Then maybe I sumtong for my close to 300 financal charges, I said to him, "your system is very stupid. " As a professional customer service center official, shouldn't you replied, "sorry madam" instead of replied, "for whatever reason it is madam, I will opt you out from e-statement."
Hello HSBC internet banking designer, I urge you to improve your user-interface and the logic. You can refer to Maybank, their user-interface is so logically layout, I can know the transaction with no sweat with just few clicks. Not like yours, I click and click and click still cannot get what I want and I have to call long distance phone calls and then I thought saving some trees will do every citizens good but hey, those trees cost me 300 ringgit!!! that's too much. So, I opt back paper statement.
Sigh... I angry, but I still like to use HSBC cc card wor. How? Have to gut yat seng telan the complaint and continue use their service loh, how?
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
I killed a fly
I killed a fly at my working cubicle.
Stupid fly, kept flying and kacau-ing me. And it stopped on my mouse, so long. I grabbed some paper, rolled it up, and "pak!", the sound is pretty loud in the office.
It over-turned. I very scared. Stacked 2 envelopes on top of it. Hoping the weight will kill him.
oh-ni-tu-fut, don't blame me, who asked u come kacau me today and yesterday. U crazy fly!
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Argument
I am so glad I have a group of supportive friends. By supportive, I mean they stand by me even sometimes I might not be 100% right, or the words I said are evil whenever I am "heng".
Had an argument with a high school fren yesterday. My conclusion now is, he has a small gas heart and thus he is a woman! Blardy woman! I am still very "heng" now, he acted so woman yesterday that none of my girl friends I know can beat that, so I still think he is a pussy woman.
my girl friends conforted me, "don't tiu him lah, let him small gas, u acted big heart. Let him feel bad." And Aigie another good friend of mine said, "he is a woman, ignore him." Last night I asked Jay, "say it out, he small gas right? He is a piece of shit right? He is a pussy woman! Say it!" Jay repeated after me, "yes, he is small gas, he is a piece of shit, he is a woman." Though I know he might not think alike, but at least he supports me. Babe ----- muacks.
So u stupid friend of mine, u are a pussy woman! I still heng now, what you did is immature and small gas for a man, and shame on you!
Monday, September 21, 2009
Claim
Of 12 months in a year, I think I only do expense claim (company one lah) 3 or at most 4 times, I am not those ones that do claim every month because I hate tracking whether they processed my claim, whether my claim banked in, and whether it is the right amount. Whenever it comes to $$, I will become very nervouse. I think I inherited this trait from my dad, simply because don't know it is with luck or what, when it comes to $$, people always miscounted on mine! I hate that. And the more careful I am with claim, the more careless our Finance people towards my claim. ARGHHHHHH!!!!!
For you to understand the story, you have to understand our company have very stupid claim system. We have different template and thus different print out for different kind of claim (normal claim is one template, travel expense claim is another template). My fear have always been they missed one paper, and only processed 1 claim.
It happened today. The finance people missed my travel claim and only give me my normal expense claim. I am sooooooooooo frustrated. I am frustrated because before they processed my claim, I purposely reminded them my claim has 2 sections. And, they still have the guts to make mistake.
I am really losing every bits of passion at this so called "The leader of xxxx industry, for today and tomorrow". I want to tiu kao the statement, "you idiot, you only have yesterday!!!"
So angry... so pissed. And you know what? Every time they banked in the claim, they are like thief, do it secretly and quietly, never tell you nor give you any proof they have banked in. And they do it not on fixed day (if you say you bank in every 1st monday of the month, i can still check right?). If this is not stupid, then what is this?? How I find out they missed one section of my claim? I called the bank to check. Yes, this "efficient".
HATE IT!!
Beautiful Swing?
I went hitting the golf ball at driving range on Saturday with Jay. Last time, I can hit the ball 6 or 7 times out of 10. Now, I am at 8 out of 10. Hooray!!! But, upper arm pain pain til today.. I had a few beautiful swing (by that i mean miss the ball completely) and Jay was giving all his support when I missed the ball with beautiful swing, "Babe, that was a real beautiful swing." I gave him that look. He some more added, "Hey, I mean it... just that your beautiful swing missed the ball completely". arrghh...
I am bugging Jay to buy me a women's club. He said I "3 minutes hot" only. My women's club wish maybe tak jadi.
Hitting the golf ball that has the "pop" crispy sound is very motivating and wash away all my unhappiness at work. I hope I can hit the ball 10 out of 10 next time. Or, 9 out of 10 is good enough for me to release stress.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Thursday, September 03, 2009
Unpleasant flight experience
I had an unpleasant flight experience from Beijing to Shanghai lately. The flight descended too fast and pressure was too much for my ear at that time. I couldn't really hear a thing, and for 5 seconds, there's this piercing pain in my right ear. After I reached the ground, I still cannot hear clearly. You know, it's like someone is covering your ear when you speak and therefore u cannot hear clearly.
That was Thursday night.
I went to see doctor on Saturday because I was very afraid this will have long term effect. Normally within 2 hours after touch the ground, my ear will regulate back to normal. This time, it's more than 48 hours. Doctor see see my ear, and just give me a prescription of something spray into my nose.
I went to see doctor again today because I don't feel any much better. This time, I asked for different doctor. This doctor is more thorough. He said he saw my right ear got a small hole pierced, with some blood stain. I was shocked, and worried. Doctor again give me some spray for the nose (both of them said my nose block, but i don't feel anything also?), and warn me no water inside the ear, cannot catch flu if not will worsen the situation, and then chew gum often to regulate the air inside it.
I am very upset, one because I worried for one of my most important organ, second because I got myself hurt because of some stupid business trip that at the first place I shouldnt' be going, someone else should be going instead of me but because of that bitch, I have to go. Anyway.. i really hope it will get better next week:(
I told my best friend Kevin about this, he told me he got his ear hole pecah too one time, because his client yelled and scolded him over the phone. My this Kevin fren is a hongkie, managerial position at a great company, it's hard to believe he also got such difficult client to yell at him. After that phone call, he cannot hear anything! He went to see doctor. Doctor told him his hole pierced due to some high pitch noise. It took him 1.5 week to heal. He comforted me it will be alright. I cannot tell you how glad I feel everytime when something bad happened to me, he will phone me and comfort me. He is really my best fren, and it's like got 心灵感应 between us, this is so weird.
Anyway, I am totally gonna get this pressure regulate thing for my next flight!!! It's costly (158 yuan) so it had better be working on me!