Thursday, April 06, 2006

爱在菜里

飞机又延误了。不是我说,这中国,真的是人多到坐飞机都会因为飞机排队离开跑道而延误时间。中国的飞机不延误的几率好像中彩票那样难。这倒好,给我一点时间写一写我的blog,呵呵—

离开家的那一天,我深怕我的老公接下来的几天吃不到我煮的饭会没营养(他一定乘机吃快熟面的),所以就匆忙的在赶飞机之前煮好汤(给他补一补)和一个菜及肉,也把水果切好放进冰箱。匆忙地切着、煮着的时候,觉得这感觉好熟悉。愕然想起我婆婆在世的时候,从麻坡来我们家住几天的时候也是这样的,预先煮好几道菜放在冰箱给我的阿公吃,深怕他饿着了。当时我还心里嘀咕着,怪我的阿公怎么这么霸道,不一起跟来我们的家也就算了(他很少出远门的,也不记得他有哪一次是不住在自己的家),干麻还要婆婆辛苦的先煮好菜呢?

现在我明白了,没有人逼婆婆这样做的。这是爱的表现。原来爱情可以是这么的伟大,这么的顽固的:)想着想着,差一点为了煮菜煲汤而赶不到机场。不过迟到也不要紧,那班机到后来也是延误的。

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

把爱藏在菜里让老公吃进心里…
想不到黛丝这个小师奶也学会了这招,
要留住老公先得绑住他的胃,
还甜甜蜜蜜地宣告天下,
却回想起一些伤感的往事,
毕竟,甜蜜是要付出代价的。

Elizebeth D.L. said...

Yes, actually, now only I realized how much my grandma loves my grandpa, although she always complaint about him this & that.

They are both not here liao. I miss them sometimes. But on one hand I am glad they are gone, coz they are too old to be happy living on earth - body was deteriorated so bad that there was no much fun living. This is the 悲哀 of growing too old.

Unknown said...

well, same goes to my grandparents, my grandpa will be the one cooking and preparing food for my grandma, whole of her life, she never cooks!! .. until she was 91 years old still only eat my Ah kong's cook!
Now that they are gone.. I am sure they are together.. the love they had was so powerful, why I say that ? After my ah po pass away, my ah kong never cook anymore, and he pass away after 2 years , same date as my ah po.. =)

Anonymous said...

when will my lovely sister COOKS for her little sister? :P wuahahha.........how come i never try your cooking before. this time u come back, u must COOK FOR US... haha..

Anonymous said...

How sweet. One of my important relative also like that, everytime say she wants to divorce the husband. Now I'm not talking about someone who's in her 20s, I'm talking about someone close to 50.

After the whole chaos, thunderstorm and lightning, the are lovebirds again.

My mom attends the Kuen Cheng alumni gathering on an annual basis. I always imagine how this will be like for all of us, after some 30 years of leaving school. That time my son will be around 20.

Last time I always think that I needed to be "right" all the time, but now I think it's more important to keep good relationships with loved ones. But it took some broken relationships for me to learn this.

Looking forward to hear all your stories one day, like how we used to stay late in the Chong Hwa hostel or Sheau Huey's house.

Mr.T

Elizebeth D.L. said...

when I come back to KL, of course eat mama's cooking lah. I will not cook for u. hohohoho...

by the way, today's news -- because of plane delay, one of the passenger got really dulan and threatened the flight attendant if this plane does not take off in next 5 minutes, there will be terrorist bombing the plane. He got arrested and charged for civil wrong doing and have to spend 5 days at jail. That particular plane was delayed for 6 hours due to this.

CHINA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Elizebeth D.L. said...

Teow, my stories are mostly in my blog liao, so, does that still mean we can talk and talk and stay late in the night at someone's house? Your son will be crying and looking for papa at 9pm. How to stay late?:P