Guess where have I been over the weekend?

It is a place called 象山 at 宁波。6 torturing hours on the bus (toilets at the rest area along highway is without word can describe). This is the worst trip I had ever been in China. It is Jay's company trip. I don't understand why his staff looked so happy and played so happily on this lousy beach, very dirty.


Can you see all the cigarrette butts on the beach? This beach is more dirty than Port Dickson. My goodness.


and this uncle, still very enjoying mudding himself all over this dirty sand. I totally cannot understand, with all my intelligent cells in my head. I cannot understand why these people don't find it dirty??


this umbrella thing, if you want to sit under it, you need to pay RMB 20 for an hour, and RMB 100 deposit. When we asked, how are we gonna get back the deposit, he said, "I am always walking around this beach, you find me lah!" But the truth is, the beach is quite over-crowded ok!! everyone looked the same. So, it is VERY possible that the RMB100 deposit it not "refundable". When we asked, why does he need the deposit since the table and chairs also not appealing to be stolen, he said, "就是这样的呀!" very rude, just like other cipet cheena ah pek, we were not very surprise at this level of attitude though. I murmured "fuck him honey, don't pay, we just walk around". my honey agreed too.


I seriously don't understand why this lady is wearing high heel shoes on a beach.

OK, enough complain about the beach, let's show you some small happiness I found on the beach.


"motor bike" with my honey:) RMB35 per ride for 2 rounds only. (this lousy city is really great at sucking money)


Oh one more silly found out, this stupid dragon boat, cost RMB20 for a ride. Stupid right? The music that it made also very stupid. Just money sucker.

The next day, under the hot sun and very stuffy weather, we visited the old town in that city. It is called 石浦, last time it was a fishing village. Tell u, food there sucks, want to cut throat only (money sucking again), scenery not very special also, and people there are very very rude.


But still, I had some good time with my honey. If it is not because of him, I think I ride a taxi back to shanghai the night before liao.


Last time, because of the 男女授受不亲的 concept, 女人是这样买药的。Interesting..

I just find that it is really not enjoying to visit any small town in China anymore. No more 朴素 feeling, no more 友善 feeling, all they have is money face, with dollar sign on their eyes!!! I think except 黄山，九寨沟，青藏, I will not visit any other city in china with local tour anymore. I even have the thought to fly back to malaysia to join a malaysian tour, to fly back here again to visit these 3 places，it is that bad ok!

Sigh.

I hate this place.

asdk

Damn busy this week. I hope I have time to update the blog this afternoon.

Leng Chai?

Yesterday, on the way home (total distance is about 40 minutes), I did a count on the number of leng chai.
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NONE!!!

All I saw was some cipet look guy, giap a big wallet thing under their arm pit, and have the keychain hanging outside on their belt and when they walk got the irritating key-sound, and very lao-tu shirt, and lose long hair, and can't even stand straight on the subway!

Where are those handsome guys we always see on movie??!!! like Leon Lai type?? Don't have at all??!!!

No wonder I am so unhappy over here. Now the truth surface~~~

Wake Up Babe!

世界上最通用的6大分手理由：
1）你对我太好了，你让我有压力
2）你很好，很善良，但我不配
3）我们性格不和！再走下去双方都会辛苦
4）我现在想把所有的精力都放在事业上，还不想谈恋爱。
5）我不忍心伤害我的前女友...对不起（换言之，他比较忍心伤害你，而且也没有想过跟他前女友真正的分手，你，一直是个可怜的牺牲品，打从 day one）
5) ......... (这个人，音讯全无，让人以为他遭遇了什么不测还让你穷担心，其实，他是在歇力的逃避你。这一招是冠军的窝囊废！）

其实，理由就只有一个，就是他不爱你了。不爱你的理由，你更本也不需要知道，因为打从根本，他就没真心爱过你，所以，何来理由呢？？？

(This entry is for my friends who are still recovering from the "wound". Wake Up babe! He ain't worth your love at all. So don't waste your ching-chun over this person.)

30 years old woman, and a 6 years old boy

In my company, there is this woman, 30 years old (same age as me, damn it, so meng-sia-sui-kan), with bad temper, always muka hitam look, and always walk & shake her butt like a sifut almost can fall off anytime.

She has no bf yet. Oh, she normally won't say like this, she will say, "guys who like me, got a lot. But I don't like any of them", of course, when saying this, she always have a "f me would u" cipet look.

Lately, actually, from the start, not lately, she has a very high interest in one of our colleague's son, who is 6 years old. She always hang around with that colleague, plead him to take his son out so she can meet him, and always say she wants to belanja that kid's to eat PizzaHut. She constantly aksed him:
"how is MM?"
"Oh? school holiday already? I bet he is sleeping at home now? can you bring him out for lunch? I miss him so much!"
"It is his BD next week, I remember. I want to treat him to eat Pizza Hut, can you bring him out?"
"Oh I really fall in love at your boy, he is so cute, handsome and adorable. I wish my age can be rewinded back 20 years~"
"did he like the toy I gave him?"

she is constantly acting like this.

I don't know about my colleague, who is the father of this boy. But he seems like enjoying getting this kinda attention from her. But if I were him, I will be very worried my boy will get rape by this old woman one day, or his mental health will be cacat if hang around wiht her too much. She kept on telling that boy she loves him, and always kiss his cheeks and asked him to kiss her back.

Shiver...
Shiver...
Shiver...

I think this is too much. Even I, the listener to all these, felt very geli already.

She has no other guys she can move her attention to???

This is so ridiculous!

Visited Countries

Got this link from Angela, and discovered that I had been to 11 countries in total.


I am missing the whole Africa, Europe, South America, Carribean, Australia & Pacific, the Middle East, India. Among all of this, I would love to visit Europe and Carribean.

When? When? When??

50K renminbi !!!

After reading june's blog about the rental fees in her city, i started calculating ours over here.

I suddenly feel very very very depressed...

We are paying close to 50K renminbi a year to the cipet cheena ah pek (the house owner) just for rental!!!!! (including deposits)

Stay here 2 years, I can own a brand new car in KL already (not proton)!!! WhollY Sh*t!!!!!

SIgh.

Surprise! Surprise! MAS

Remember last time the MAS customer service line can ring and ring and ring but no one pick up and speak to you?

Remember last time we want to book ticket online at MAS but the internet speed was so slow and can't go through to the next page?

Remember how awful is the "email" experience, where your email sent to them but never got feedback even though it says "For enquiries on bookings, please call our 24-hour Call Centre or email / contact your nearest Malaysia Airlines office."

Today, I really take a chance to call them for a ticket booking, I only waited for less than 2 minutes and my call was layan. Although not by a very sweet voice girl, but her professionalism is way beyond my expectation already.

Then later on, I sent an email to them, asking them about ticket pick up question. I got a reply within half an hour time.

All in all, i just want to say I am extremely impressed by the improved services they have. Got a kind of 受宠若惊的感觉。

Never expect my phone call will get layan-ed.
Never expect my email will get an answer.
Never expect I am mentioning good stuff about MAS!

If they keep this kinda service level and attitude, I am sure the stock prices will get better and better in the near future. So, should I buy their share during my trip back this round?? Hmm...

军事纪实

最近早上上班出门前（其实是上厕所前“蕴量”着的时间，哈！）我都会打开电视看个半小时的“军事纪实”。它每一天都报道不同的“神奇”军官或人物，让我很钦佩。有好几次还感动得流泪。他们有着很纪律的训练，也有着很爱国的精神，更有着执著的精神，与不停尝试及为求做到最好的动力。

虽然很不赞同他们国家的人文素质，文明升华的速度与质量，但是在军事这一方面，我是很佩服他们的。我不相信我自己的国家有做到他们的十分之一。所以，我看了以后，其实也蛮害怕，在想，人家在没有危险的境况下都排练得这样精细与认真，我们的军人有做到这样吗？他们有这样的头脑及体力及纪律精神及认真的态度吗？想到这里，我为我们的国家的军队涅一把冷汗，也为我们的国卫担忧。

我希望我是错的。我宁愿我的想法是大错特错……

我可能真得很错，因为我还没有看过我们国家的军事纪实影片，可能也是很geng的呢？Who knows?

Count Down

Another 14 days, and I am going back for KL for 2 weeks:)

However, this time, I do not feel the excitement that I felt when I went back in May. This time, I kept on thinking, "what's so happy about it? I still need to return to this sucky land after the happy 2 weeks, and suffer more." I'm a bit pessimistic eh?

And this trip, will use up my whole year annual leaves. Bloody 15 cheena standard labor annual leaves, just like that, finished.

Some might be questioning, why such a short notice going back this time? I will tell you the reason when we meet up for mamak lah, Okie?:)

I will call you guys. Wait for my calls~~~

爱在哈佛

最近一个比较年轻的同事借了这个韩剧谍给我看。

还真想不到，纵然我和老公都一致认为这个戏真的很不真实，我们还是看得有来有去。哈！

这部韩剧让我想到潘瑞婷--我们同学中唯一读上Harvard MBA School。很想问一问她，哈佛真的是这样轻松的吗？有这么多的时间作义工、沟女、去医院、？？？

韩剧里的女生，还真的是很漂亮！！

Honey's 33th Birthday!:)

Yesterday was my honey's 33th birthday. We actually celebrated on Saturday, I belanja him to eat Italian steak (yes, for once, take cheena food out of our mind). Purposely booked a quite high-class restaurant, to avoid those cipet cheena ah pek talking loudly next to us, or smoking those cheap cigaratte next to us. Turns out, is American sitting next to us, behind us, and right across us. So, it turns out that we are right -- those irratating cheena cipet uncle could not afford this kinda meal. MUAHAHAH!!!! Great!!!!!!!! (gone hay wire again whenever mention about cipet cheena ah pek, and mind u, I have my OWN set of meaning about cipet, so don't simply accuse me for being rude! How rude I am also not as bad as those cipet uncle.)


my honey ordered a T-bone steak. :) yum yum

Then yesterday afternoon, I arranged a courier boy to pick up a cake I ordered from my favorite cake house over here, to send to our house. hehehe.. J was quite surprised to see the cake. He acted like a small kid, happily waiting for me to put up the candle (is abit lao tu about the candle... really cheena feel eh).


He made 3 wishes after I sing the Happy BD song, and blow out the candle:)


By the way, they (cake house) can't even spell "honey"... I really wanted to cry when I see this message on the cake.... aiyoh-eh... "honey" is not a common word in china??? sigh...

Anyway, the cake was really great taste:) We both love it.

I wish my honey everyday also very happy, healthy, and wealthy. hahahaa....:P Happy Birthday!!! CHEERS~~~:)


(by the way, do you guys know that J had never had a chance to view my blog because china server does not allow any blogspot access? So, he can never guess what I complaint, compliment, happy about, mad about on the blog. hahahaha...)

OMG!

Recently, I realized I am "localized" in some way. I tell you why I feel so.

In my handbag, I have:
- wallet, of course.
- handphone
- housekey
- subway card
- tissue
- lunch box (due to hot weather now, I brought lunch just like most shanghainese to work to avoid going out in the afternoon).
- newspaper
- a 扇子 that I buy from the downstairs old popo stall, to keep me cool air when I am walking under such weather.

Can you notice a few si-nai stuff that only cheena people will carry?? especially the lunch box and 扇子!!

Back in Malaysia, my handbag, I have:
- some bank statement that i need to settle,
- wallet, handphone (of course)
- CD (lend to people, or copy some photos from the camera and burnt into CD to bring home)
- lipstick
- name card
- car key
- mostly forgot to bring tissue
- no housekey, it is in the car
- and definitely no 扇子!!

Oh my God.. I must remind myself I cannot be like that. I CANNOT BE LIKE THAT!!!

WHolly sh*T!

Another Great Movie!

Jay and I watched a DVD last night, "Original Sin", by Angelina Jolie and Antonio Andaras.

"This is not a love story, but it is a story about love".

This is the begining phrase of the movie, and also the most meaningful phrase in the whole movie. Yes, this movie is indeed about a story about love, but not a love story, coz there are people dying in the story, some 叫妓 scene, and also not very comfortable scene (when they were caught cheating on the card game, Angelina actually sacrificed a lot, sigh). So, it is definitely not a romantic love story, but it is really a story about love.

THe fact that Antonio Andaras in the movie is willing to drink up the poisonous coffee even though he knows it is poisonous touched me so much~~, at the end, I paid a price too, I can't sleep after we finished watching the show at 12.30am. Kept on thinking how great is love...

Sigh... Love is great, love is painful, love is about sacrifice, and love is sometimes "cheating" too.. haha..

Oh by the way, I don't find Angelina Jolie pretty anymore.. she looked a bit chan in the movie.. not as great as Tomb Raider time.

But her body is still great!! Got a bit of nude scene in the movie ;)

Great movie pals... worth a watch. It is not about love story. It is a story about Love!

重见天日

脚指头的水泡今天终于开始消了，整整折磨了我4天。每天还被逼在办公室里换上人字拖鞋，让它透透风，希望它好得快。晚上睡觉也不敢乱翻身，因为一调整位置就会弄疼脚指，还得不时地提醒老公，叫他翻身的时候不要把他的脚塔在我的脚上。这3天正的还过得蛮痛苦的。

所以，真的，以后上班还是穿一些比较踏实的鞋子。华丽、诱人、可爱的高跟鞋，I will miss you... but I can't wear you to work anymore.

好戏！

最近在电视节目里看了一套好戏--- 千里走单骑，导演是张艺谋。

我看了感动得流泪。父亲对儿子的爱，儿子对父亲的原谅，就在这一套有着日本人的对话及中国人的对话中的影片中展现无疑。

愿天下的父子都可以时常对着对方讲“我爱你”，而不是等到一切都太迟才来弥补。

High Heel Shoes

I used to wear high heel shoes to work in KL, since the first day I started my working life. I totally have no problem wearing high heel shoes when I was driving to work.

But I have never imagined it would be a problem for me wearing the high heel shoes walking for more than 5 minutes, on the road, at shanghai.

Today, I 不信邪, ngeh ngeh wear a new high heel shoes I bought 2 months ago over here, after glancing at the sky and told myself, "nah, it ain't gonna rain today, good weather for high heel shoes."

Just 5 minutes wearing it walking towards the subway station, I realized it was a BIG mistake. My left leg, the smallest toe, is 反抗！起水疱了！

Aih... 真不争气！

I do miss the time in KL, where I can wear high heel shoes driving to work.

This pair of shoes, will be kept in the closet until another next good weather day where I don't have to do constant walking for more than 5 minutes.

I do miss my high-heel-shoes-days.

青藏

昨天买了最新一期的中国国家地理杂志(China National Geographic)，里面有无数的青藏内容（配合最近新开的西藏铁路吧），无数美丽的照片，无数的介绍，无数的青藏地图。

弄得我心痒痒。

好，我会尽量把身子弄得强壮一点，准备我的西藏旅程！今年可能不能，明年吧！

听说贵宾车厢（还没有通行）是美金1000元一晚... ！!@#$!@

算了，普通车厢也已够好的了，有氧气设备（如果我缺氧，至少不会马上死）。

有谁知道什么时间去青藏是最好的呢？

Cipet Zhuag Day!!!

Fug, what kinda place is this? summer so cipet zhuag, winter so cipet cold.

Guess perhaps this is how God punish the cipet people here.

thinking about this make me feel better though...

CIPET!!!!!!!