Tuesday, September 18, 2012

"I have to be fair with my wife"

Below conversation took place between me and boss (male) on one fine day...

Boss: "My mom is not very well lately. She just had knee surgery. And she is getting old. I am worried about her."

Me: " Oh.. is she living with you and your family?"

Boss: "No. She lives alone."

Me: "Oh... " 不解 expression shown on my face. Not because the fact that she lives alone. It is the fact that you tell people you worried about your mom, and she is ill, and very old, and yet you let her stay alone.

Boss continued : "I have to be fair with my wife."

Fair?????????????????????

What the hell is this????????????????????????

How is taking care of your mom being unfair with your wife by staying together?

I know 家家有本难念的经, but what you said is what you think. Unbelievable a son will think like this. But then again, I am not surprised. My nearby also got such one fresh example lah. Yiu.

See lah? Prove another - son is really 没有心肝. (This will piss off a lot of people, but, so far 90% of the time I see this happening).


Wednesday, August 29, 2012

Camping?

We are going to walk 3 hours, to see a beautiful twin lakes, which we had done this last year (and walk back for 3 hours to the car park). This weekend, we are going to do the same, except this time, we going to stay overnight at the rest house there.

I think of the "natural" toilet, I don't want to go...

But then bui bui 兴致勃勃 wor.... I don't want to 少兴. We going with another 2 friends. We also previously bought 2 new sleeping bags, just to prepare for this.

And I also don't want to carry sleeping bag + water + some food (??) for 3 hours... I don't want!!!!!!!!!!

How ah?????

I am in dilemma.... I love the scenary... but I don't love the toilet. I love the idea of sleeping in the cold icy mountain and waking up to some birds chirping and maybe got some wild animals at night who knows... haha... and I don't want to walk 3 hours with the burden of sleeping bag, water, food, and other stuff... and I don't like to bangsai or cannot bangsai at those toilet.... don't even mention shower ok, definitely no shower for 1 day...

:-(

HOW???????????

Friday, August 03, 2012

Learnt something new - Trust vs Will

Was reading a book lately, it touches on the difference of Trust vs Will.

Now I know why my boss has Trust and not Will. There's a probate fees on Will, but not on Trust.. But then the tax implication on Trust and Will I think is different. Need to find out too... hmm...

For my own reference later on (I tend to can't find it back from Favorite folder if I saved it as Favorite, don't know why... I am very disorganized:)):

Probate Fees

The provinces each have different fee structures.
In British Columbia, the basic fee payable for commencing the application for the grant is $208.
The basic fee is waived if the value of the estate* does not exceed $25,000. The $25,000 threshold is calculated based on the value of all the property of the deceased situated in British Columbia.
In addition to the basic application fee, there is a requirement that the following fees be paid:
  1. $6 for each $1,000 or part of $1,000 of the value of the estate in excess of $25,000, up to $50,000, plus
  2. $14 for each $1,000 or part of $1,000 of the value of the estate in excess of $50,000.
For Example:
If an estate has a gross value of $214,500, the total fee payable will be:
Basic Fee$208.00
Additional Fee
($50000 – $25,000) / $1,000 X $6$150.00
($215,000 – $50,000) / $1,000 X $14$2,310.00
Total$2,668.00
*The “value of the estate” means the gross value of
(a) the real and tangible personal property of the deceased situated in British Columbia, and
(b) if the deceased was ordinarily resident in British Columbia immediately before the date of death, the intangible personal property of the deceased, wherever situated, that passes to the personal representative at the date of death.
The probate fee rate is the rate in effect when the grant is issued, not the rate in effect on the date of death, nor the rate in effect on the date when any additional filing fees are paid.

Source: http://www.bcheritagelaw.com/legal-services/estate-law-information/estate-administration/probate-fees/

Thursday, August 02, 2012

My new hobby - Biking

I recently am very addicted to biking.

When I am walking on the street, I will observe people's bike, how theirs look like, what gear they have. Does it look light or heavy. How did they get on to the bus with bike hooked in front of bus, how did they get on to skytrain, what are the rules and conditions to have it on skytrain, safety helmet, etc.

But then people who knows me, know I am very "short passion". That is, my passion for something normally does not last long (except for Bui, hahahaa). Knowing my this weakness, I decided to buy a used bike.

Because I am small size, it is not easy to look for a used bike that suits me. Most of them are for Bui's height (he alraedy got a bike 2 years ago loh). My height needs a 14" frame. Most advertised are 16" to 24". Very gek sei yan ah... but 皇天不负有心人, I found one!! I so scared it sold to others, I immediately take off early from work, and go to her house to have a look.

This is what it is advertised. Not girlie (I was afraid of pink). I saw many 14" bike are for kids, and they are in princess pink (vomit). hahaha.... anyway, I tried, and it is a perfect size, and I feel comfortable riding it. I bought it for $80! yay~


Went home, immediately we go for a ride near our neighborhood (there's a long bike trail, very nice). Very nice weather, everything so nice. And I asked ah bui take a pic of me. And he dropped my iphone! Iphone screen was cracked, like a spider-web. Still can use, just screen is no good. I very upset lah of course. Bui insisted he wants to take it to store to fix. I told him if it is more than $50 I don't want to fix. Bui said, "cannot, must fix, because if don't fix, you will scold me everytime you use your iPhone.". hahahaa....

The screen was fixed for $55. My phone is 3GS. I am waiting for i5 to come out lah so I can get a new contract. That's why I don't mind to wait. But Bui insisted... anyway, the new screen is very nice. I think better than my old screen, dunno why leh? haha...

I am so addicted to bike riding now. We went for another ride yesterday (without my iPhone this time) to our nearby grocery store to check out prices (first time go that grocery store). First time ride on the road with cars... a bit scary... but I think I will get used to it. Yes, I wore helmet, although it makes me look retarded, but, safety comes first. haha..

Our bikes (both also used one haha).

Friday, July 27, 2012

Olympic 2012

I really don't like Olympic.

It makes me think back the difficult time in 2008... when we  lose our dad. 4 years ago, at this time, I think we were busy going to hospital to be with my dad, though he already in coma. I am not even sure if it is a coma, because it is a man-made one, because they need to make him unconscious to put through the tube into his lung from his mouth so he can "breath"... so, is it coma? Anyway....

This four-year-once thing is really a cruel constant reminder... though I get better each year dealing with another year without dad, the scar will be forever there.

I really miss my dad... :(

Contented Cows

Who should read this book?

Answer: My boss!!!

Ding Ding Ding Ding Ding....

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

I've Got Your Number

"I've got your Number", by Sophie Kinsella.

This book is so fun to read!!!!!!! I just got it yesterday from the library (it's brand new some more! haha, but I waited on waiting list for few months I think), and I am half way through today already.

I read it on skytrain, can't help myself but to laugh at some of the parts. hahahaha.....

I am really enjoying life without study and exam, for a short moment :-D

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

Speechless

I think my boss craves for the feeling of having a slave that does all his personal stuff, including dealing with his good friend.

He called me just now, asked me to call his friend to give her the address for tonight's dinner, and asked me to tell her where to park the car. In doing so, he has to give me her best friend's phone number.

I seriously cannot think of the logic behind this. Except that it makes him feels like he is a God by having someone do this kind of thing for him.

I am sooo speechless.

Monday, July 23, 2012

100%, and Kayaking

The unimaginable has happened. I got 100% for final!!!!!!!

I never realized it is possible to have 100% for an exam that is not multiple choice. I am sure I left out some important points in the last legal questions, so there's only one explanation to this 100%. The instructor has to mark leniently so some of the students will not fail. hahahaha...

Some students are really kanasai one. The guai low I told you before? 10 min before the exam, he asked other people how's the preparation. Ppl said "OK". Then he said, "I only studied for 1 hour today. This stuff is very common sense." I hate people whose nose is pointed towards the sky. WTF.... Then the korean student (the one got 31% last time), emailed me 2 hours before class, said she did not have the answers to one of the quiz. I thinking, of course you don't, you were late that day, and when you came in, you did not even listen to the lecture, you were busy texting as usual, in Korean, with your friend/boy friend. Sigh....

I am not trying to be nerd here. I just thought you should be responsible to yourself in whatever you are doing, that includes study. Anyway, I told her I will be in the class 20 minutes before the exam, so she can look at my answer.

I felt so relaxed after the exam. We went for kayaking with friends yesterday. It was fun, although it comes at a price - muscle pain. hhehehee....


We saw two sea lions sunbathing. So cute!!!! It was one big, one small. I think it is a father and son. And few sea gulls too... Anyway, the weather was not very good yesterday, but we already reserved the kayak, so we went. It was better this way actually, if the wearther is sunny, Bui will complain too hot lah, melted lah, he can't breath lah, sweating too much lah. As it turns out, just not lots of sunshine, few rains (like 10 min only), and other than that, is OK. hehehe... there are a few motor boats crossing the sea... when they are near, the waves are big... and Bui will be gun cheong, coz he can't swim. We were afraid the boat might tip, but turned out ok. I really should get Bui to go learn swimming. Makes me worried every time we have water activities.


Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Monday, July 09, 2012

Ikea and Ah bui

Because of moving to new place, we have been making frequent trips to Ikea.

Our shoe rack, bathroom cabinet, living room cabinet, curtain rod, curtain, lights, are all from Ikea. Sometimes when I am halfway screwing the cabinet, I will blurt out "I HATE YOU IKEA!!!!!! FUCK YOU!!!!"... because, let's be honest, the screwing job is not that easy as it seems. Sigh.... and sometimes towards the last step, only realized they do not provide the blardy screws that hook the item to the wall. Kanasai or not??

Anyway, I have never see my Bui lose control either outside or at home. But, yesterday, I first time witness my Ah Bui can lose control too, if it is about his food. (Hahahahhahaa.... oh dear...). Yesterday is the second time, due to time constraint, we eat at Ikea. They have this roasted chicken set that my ah bui wanted to try but never get to have, because, at both times that he ordered (different day some more), it was out of stock, and need to wait dunno like half an hour like that. Ah Bui is very 执著 when it comes to food. He scolded the waiter first time few weeks ago, he told them if it is out of stock, should remove the item from the Menu, or stick a "out of order" sticker or something like that. Yesterday, is the second time he tried to order this item and the waiter told him no more, have to wait. So Ah Bui quite angry already, but still manage to  hold it, and said, OK, I WILL WAIT. The stupid Waiter (korean old lady), after bui said he will wait, still ask him "would you like a beef?". She is really inviting a kaboom of land mine. First of all, Bui does not take beef. Secondly he already said he will wait. And then, of course bui said, "I don't eat beef. I already said I will wait.". Then they just ignored him. U know the stupid ikea cafeteria line up ge lah, like in prison like that, the line needs to keep moving after you take your order. So Bui is confused, how is he supposed to wait???? He asked the other waiter, how is he going to wait? The waiter told him he has to come back. Then bui turned to me, "how am I supposed to know when to come back???? got timer????". I tell u ah, bui never 发这么大的脾气. He was really pissed off. First time he lose cool in front of me, is because of food. hahahahaha... I have to hold my laughter and at the same time tried to act serious in front of him. Then bui threw the plate aside, said, "Screw you. I won't eat here." BUt then ah, I already ordered my meatball set. hahahhahahaa... at the end, he has to wait for me to finish the meatball. It was very funny, and yet I heartache for him also. Heartache because my teddy bear face hubby was so pissed off by Ikea cafeteria. And this Ikea also one kind, how can the stupid roasted chicken  always be out of order????? I suspect they never have this on menu!!!!! I purposely eat for 30 min there, and observe ppl tray. None of them have chicken. Meaning it was till out of order after30 min. Ikea, really u are no good!!!

My cute ah bui....

Ikea... I suspect their business is very good. Because got one item I wanted to buy, but our car was fully loaded that time, so I said I will come back next trip for it. But it was out of stock!!!! The last time I see it still has 12 sets (it is a cabinet). Just 5 days difference, it is out of stock. WAH.... when I asked them when is the stock coming, they said, "2 weeks time, but no gaurantee.". Is this the way you supposed to freak out your customer???? Can't you take initiative to check with other location see got or not? (there's another Ikea, 30 min drive from the one we frequently go) Can't you offer to take your customer phone number and give a courtesy call when the item arrived? Can't you say "you can pay first, we will order for you, when it arrives, we will call you"... things like that??? I suspect Ikea's business is too good, that they forgot the fundamental rule in business -- Customer Rules!!!! Tiu u ikea. You think you very good? You won't go far with your attitude.

Thanks for it's out of stock on that cabinet, we decided NOT to have that item. We thought of the other alternative. Even better. We will return the two doors that we bought, and then thanks for your rude but innocent customer service, you just saved us $200. Yay~~~~

I shall show you our finished products next week :)

Friday, June 29, 2012

99

I have a new name, "99".

hahahahha...

When I got back the paper last night, I was so shocked. I immediately put the paper face down, scared will scare my neighbor. But already too late. The guai low who always sits behind me, yesterday was sitting beside me. He said, "SHIT!". then I looked at his, he got 91%. But instructor "scold" us, she said, "don't be so competitive." hahaha...

Anyway, she said she let us go too easy this midterm. She will make the final harder :( wahhhhhhhhhhhh....

The Law class is getting really more interesting. We were at Human Rights Law, and Privacy Law this week. Soooo interesting.. the more I study law, the more I understand why guai low likes to sue people. So many things can sue!!!!! And once you win, the award is quite high! I presented (each class got presentation, sigh) a case on a mentally disable person, his mom sue on behalf of him to the B.C. Human Rights Tribunal because a mobile home rejected his application to rent the home pad, on the basis of discriminating his mental disability and also his source of income (he receiving the government grant for disability each month for $900++, but the rent for the home pad is just $300++). At the end, the tribunal member thinks that to deny onces central needs ("home") based on discrimination is a very egregious act, and they won $10,000. Actually, I suspected he could have gotten $20,000. The highest claim was $35,000 in history as of April 2012. Just because he did not testify in court (mom scared to hurt his feeling, not ask him to testify at court), the tribunal member cut the award down. See how interesting?? Like that also can leh! ngor men nei sei mei! The other person presented a blind person suing a school for cancelling his job interview once they learnt he is blind, he sued the school for discrimination on employment. But because he has not got the job yet, it is not considered under the Human Rights Code. He didn't win big, just $3000. He use this money to go to UBC to study law now. When I hear this kind of case, my jaw also dropped ot the floor.... LIKE THAT ALSO CAN GE MEH??

Hmm....

So tired after got home last night. Didn't call mom. I think she is on her way to Germany now.... I hope she will enjoy her trip fully. First time away from home, travel alone. She is meeting my aunt at Germany. :))))



Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Fevering

Fevering...
Worrying...
Studying...
Working...
Unpacking...
Dozing off...
That's my life yesterday and today :(

Monday, June 25, 2012

Midterm 2 is tomorrow

S u f f e r i n g . . . . .

: (

Packing, moving, unpacking, studying is really not a life for a normal human being...

ARRGGHHHHhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

While I was studying with boxes piled up behind me yesterday, our new neighbor downstairs waved at me. I suddenly cannot register who is that, until her dad shows up behind her. We introduced each other with her dad yesterday, but not the daughter. That's why!

The daughter must be pitying me, so old already still study and 满脸愁容.

ARRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhhhhh

The first Midterm of 95 is creating unmeasurable stress on me. What if this time I fail? What will the instructor be thinking? How can one get 95 on first midterm and fail on another midterm???

I just wasted 5 minutes thinking about this...

: (

Friday, June 22, 2012

Shoes..

My shoes....:

How ah? I really love this pair of shoes... I love the color, and I love it is flat, and it is weightless. But now the left front part torn like that (the surface is torned, but not all the way to my fresh), how to wear :(

Just throw it away?? Definitely not worth to fix it. I remember i bought it very cheap at Shanghai.

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

95%

Bui and I are very very very busy lately. Our new apartment has been completed, and we took key last week. It is small but it is "ours". The feeling is so different. 

Weekend, we busy went to Ikea to shop for some cabinet for living room and also for washroom. And shoes rack too. Since everything is small, so we have to take measurement carefully. We so glad we able to find shoe rack that can fit into the entrance area just nice. It was as if it was tailored made for it. haha. But I realized Ikea does not supply nail/screw for attaching purpose. Ikea ah Ikea, some of your fixture, blind also can see MUST be attached to the wall, can't you supply the screw instead of making us stop at that point, and only realized then need to buy screw, and it was late already, shop closed, and we can only continue the next day?

We only managed to install a white cabinet on top of the mahtong. Even that, was so tiring. we can only do a little each day after I come home from work. I have to save the holiday for my sister's wedding, can't use it on matters like such.


I almost screw the wrong side of the board... luckily Bui is more careful type of person, he corrected me before I screw it tight! haha...

With these guys help!:

Yes, I have become a handy man in Canada! hahahaha.... we do feel very sumtong when we put in screw into the wall, which we never felt so before (with landlord's apartment). hahaa...

We were so busy, we didn't even bother re-paint the wall. Anyway, the new unit came with a white wall. Good for anything to goes with it. For the time being, it has to be white.

With these things going on, I still have to take my midterm last Tuesday, and classes every week (after work, 2 days). Sooooo tiring. Before each class, we have to read the chapters first. And because the course is Canadian Business Law, we have to read so many cases in the class everytime. So many readings to do, and some wordings are so "deep". Luckily I am already used to reading a lot, but still. At one point, I almost cried to Bui "I want to give up, this is too difficult, at my age!". Bui as usual, let me do ANYTHING, he replied "OK, quit. I don't want to see you so suffer." Then me, as usual, very practical type, "then the $600 tuition fees, mah thrown into the sea?????? CANNOT LAH!!!!!!!" This goes on as a cycle for many days (conversation), while we busy doing renovation, and schooling. SIGH!

Last night, I got back my midterm 1. Guess what? I got 95%!!! At first I cannot believe it. I thought instructor gave mark wrongly. Then she goes through the questions with the whole class, only I realized this is real. hahahaa.... the korean girl next to me got 31%. She doesn't seem very happy... the guai low behind me, asked me, "how did you do on midterm?" I replied, "it was alright". Then I asked him, "How did yours go?". He showed me two big thumbs up and a wide smile! "Awesome!". I said, "good for you. so, what's the score?" He showed me. It was 88%. Ah cheh....... I almost laugh out loud. OK... guai low memang don't know how to be "him" 谦.

I was so happy I texted Bui right away. Then I showed him the test paper at night. And I still can't beleive i got 95%. Bui said he has a new name for me, the name is, "95". hahaha...

Anyway..... i still have midterm 2 and Final to pass..... hope I can do "OK". :p Btw, instructor said to me "good work" last night, when I said goodbye to her. Makes me as happy as a standard one kid!!! :-)

We have to pack stuff into boxes too. We are moving this Saturday. And then have to do so many little tweeny tinny thingy such as get insurance for the unit, arrange for tv cable and internet at new place and disconnect at old place, find movers, schedule electricity, change address (kill me, with quite a few credit cards!) wahhhhhh... head also  almost kaboom...:s Moving is really no fun!!!!! We are sick of moving, hopefully next one is gonna be some years down the road. But, we don't mind to move into bigger house next time! That's for sure:)

Thursday, June 14, 2012

Sigh...
:-(

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

后宫甄嬛传

后宫甄嬛传, another great success of drama series from China!!

I am on episode 27... 75 in total.

The 坏人花妃,is so skillful in her acting. Ichiban!!! You watch this movie you really hate her deeply, but, that is the success part of her right? hahaha...

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

My boss has menopause

Boss with menopause (is a he), "can you give me the package for tomorrow's AGM meeting?"

I don't even know there's an AGM meeting for tomorrow, to start with. So I replied, "I did not know about the AGM meeting.. I don't remember seeing the package from them."

Boss with menopause, "are you sure? check and get back to me."

After 1 hour, he came back from lunch.

"I printed out the package for you. I got it from the secretary of ABC, I asked her to email me."

Boss with menopause, "so, did they not send to us?"

"... I did not ask about the detail, I thought you just want the package"

Boss with menopause, "you should be more curious. Find out if they sent it to us earlier! Because if they did not send out to us, the other Mr will not know about the meeting. Do you get what I mean? xing xiu xiu la"

I REALLY WANT TO KILL HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!@#$%!!!!!!!!!!

The other person did not send the package to you, you can scold me???????

:< I am so wanting to slap him!!!! Hate him so much. Fake face.

Friday, May 25, 2012

The Hunger Games

I am reading The Hunger Games. It is unbelievably interesting to read!!!

Should I bring it to SF tomorrow to read on flight? What if I dai-tao-har and misplaced it? Then I have to pay fines to the library. hahaha.... not only that, the on-hold readers will kill me. I have been reserving this book for more than 2 months only reach my turn. Such a hot book.

My mom and sister and soon to be BIL come and go just like a 龙卷风. They only spent 4 days at Vancouver loh... now they are playing at SF already... I think they are tired. For me, if the trip lasts more than 5 days, I will be dead tired and miss my own bed at home. haha... anyway, will see them soon :)

May 2012 - what a busy month for us!